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Believing the Best Isn’t Letting Him Off the Hook

November 2, 2015 by Shaunti Feldhahn 1 Comment

Dear Shaunti, In one of your books, you say it’s important to believe the best of your spouse’s intentions. But all that does is give your spouse license to hurt you again and again without consequences. Who cares what their intentions are, if the result is pain?  My husband says things that are harsh to […]

Filed Under: Believe the Best, For Women Only book, Men, Patheos (Ask Shaunti), Surprising Secrets book

Guys wonder: do compliments really matter? Three things your wife is secretly thinking:

October 29, 2015 by Shaunti Feldhahn Leave a Comment

“Am I beautiful?”  You may think your wife is beautiful, adorable, sexy, and you love to look at her.  And yet…. she probably sees all her flaws instead.  She has deep doubts about whether she is beautiful at all.  Little girls will spin in a pretty dress, asking “Daddy, am I pretty?”  And guys, your confident, […]

Filed Under: Believe the Best, For Women Only book, Men, Patheos (Ask Shaunti), Surprising Secrets book

Diamond Disappointment: If the ring is cheap, does it mean his feelings are too?

October 27, 2015 by Shaunti Feldhahn 2 Comments

Dear Shaunti, The day my boyfriend asked me to marry him was one of the happiest days of my life. He went all out: perfect location, meaningful words, and down on one knee with a lovely ring. At the time, I wouldn’t have changed a thing. But now, just a few months before the wedding, […]

Filed Under: Believe the Best, For Women Only book, Men, Patheos (Ask Shaunti), Surprising Secrets book

2 is better than 1: Facing Conflict Together

April 20, 2015 by Shaunti Feldhahn Leave a Comment

Dear Shaunti, I work a lot of hours, and when I’m at home, I don’t want conflict.   Problem is, we’ve had a lot of conflict recently – we’re both stressed by some extra medical bills and headaches with our kids – and it seems a whole lot better to me to try to avoid it. […]

Filed Under: Communication, Patheos (Ask Shaunti), Surprising Secrets book

Negative wife? Here’s how to stop the cycle!

March 23, 2015 by Shaunti Feldhahn 67 Comments

Dear Shaunti, My wife and I are making a concerted effort to improve our marriage. Although she is a wonderful woman and a great mother, it drives me crazy at how negative she’s become over 12 years together. She is often critical about the most insignificant things. I didn’t pick the right pajamas for the […]

Filed Under: Love, Patheos (Ask Shaunti), Surprising Secrets book

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