Speaking
Engaging • Practical • Transformational
Whether in-person, pre-recorded, or virtual, Shaunti’s talks are packed with simple, practical truths that offer great hope. Shaunti provides rigorous research in a fun packaging, with lots of laughs, stories and illustrations. And the audience can’t get away from it, because it is not her opinion but provable fact! Shaunti is always delighted to tailor her talks to include just what you need—including doing a joint event with her husband, Jeff, who is an excellent speaker and storyteller and who men really connect with!
Shaunti can do multiple topics for your event; for example, a popular combination might include some or all of the following:
- Friday night – Women’s Event
- Saturday morning – Couples’ Event
- Sunday morning – Pastoral Interview during the sermon time
We would love to share practical, encouraging, hope-filled lessons with your people. Call or email Nicole Owens to explore the speaking and event options (speaking@shaunti.com)!
Topics At-A-Glance
Men, Women, Marriage & Relationships
These talks feature “Aha!” moments from Shaunti’s best-selling books and social research, including her books For Women Only, For Men Only, The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Marriages, and more! Multiple message formats are available!
Leadership & Workplace
After an 8-year investigative study for her explosive book The Good News About Marriage, Shaunti debunks many of the damaging myths about marriage (e.g. the 50% divorce rate, the rate in the church…) and reveals the very real hope that everyone needs to know. These talks are perfect for pastors, marriage and family leaders, and women in the workplace.
Encouragement, Mental & Emotional Health
These talks feature the best of research, science AND scriptural principles to speak to the heart of the anxiety, depression and struggles we all face now more than ever before. Learn from Shaunti’s devotionals: Find Peace, Find Balance, Find Rest, Find Joy, as well as The Kindness Challenge.
Parenting & Youth
Ever heard “You’re just not listening!” after you’ve been listening for ten minutes? For every confused parent, there’s a teen, pre-teen or child who is longing to be understood. These talks are perfect for parents, grandparents, teachers and young adults.
"Shaunti has an engaging, compelling way of presenting her findings about how men think. It helped open the eyes of women to the real needs of the men in their lives, and it gave men a common language to use to talk about these things with their wives. I urge churches and other groups to give her the opportunity to share this message."
—Andy Stanley, Senior Pastor, North Point Community Church, Alpharetta, GA
Speaking Sample
Sermon/Pastoral Interview Sample
Shaunti’s most common talks are below. (Any can include Jeff, to become marriage-oriented.):
- Marriage Conference / Date Night
- Understanding the Inner Lives of Men / Women
- Kindness Changes Everything
- Sermon Interview
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Shaunti’s most common talks on mental and emotional health are below.
- How to Find Joy and Overcome Anxiety: What Science and Scripture Say
- Finding Rest in a Do-It-All World
- Women’s Weekend Retreat; The World’s Gone Crazy But I Don’t Have To
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Feedback from Shaunti's Events
“Shaunti Feldhahn allowed God to use her to save my marriage. My husband and I were considering divorce (after 10 years).”
“When Shaunti explained what the man’s core need is versus the women’s core need, I saw for the first time that I was to blame for so much wrong in our marriage. My husband and I have reconciled and are now willing to work on our relationship. He sees the difference in how I treat him as my husband.”
—Female Attendee
“I just wanted to thank you for saving my marriage.”
“What I learned has yielded dividends far beyond my wildest expectations. And it was pretty darn easy! I had believed my purpose was to make lots of money. But I decided to try what you said for 30 days and see what happened. Within two weeks: magic! We made mad passionate love (which she initiated!) twice in the week!! Big deal you say? YES IT WAS! We had not made love in two years. Things have continued to improve. We are now planning vacations together, going out on dates, etc. Most importantly, we’re confiding our deepest dreams and fears with each other again. I feel like I did when I first met my cute little redhead best friend in college 26 years ago!”
— Male Attendee
Choosing Reconciliation Over Divorce
“I have to tell you something. I was supposed to have a meeting with a divorce lawyer on Wednesday—to end my marriage. But I’m going to call the lawyer and cancel it.”
— Female Attendee