Speaking
Engaging • Practical • Transformational
I’m Shaunti Feldhahn – a social researcher, author, and semi-confused wife and mom finding my way just like you. I provide practical tips and tools that improve relationships.
My talks have been called “transformational.” That’s because they’re grounded in the bible and research (I’ve surveyed tens of thousands of Americans on what makes relationships work.)
I love it when audiences have fun, so I use relatable illustrations and tell funny stories (usually on myself and my husband Jeff). Speaking of Jeff, we make a great team, and love to do marriage events together.
We are happy to do multiple events in one weekend:
- Friday night – Date Night Couples Event
- Saturday – Women’s Event
- Sunday morning – Churchwide Ministry (during sermon)

Marriage Events
Discover “Aha!” moments from Shaunti’s research and bestselling books, including For Women Only, For Men Only, The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Marriages, Secrets of Sex & Marriage and more. Multiple formats include a one-session marriage talk, a multi-part marriage seminar, or a Sunday sermon with Jeff and Shaunti exploring God’s intention for marriage.
Leadership & Workplace
Good leaders know what makes people tick! From understanding how men really see women in the workplace (The Male Factor) to research-based gender differences at work and home (For Women only, For Men Only) to how simple acts of kindness can transform your workplace (The Kindness Challenge), these talks are perfect for pastors, marriage and family leaders, and working women.
Churchwide Events
Develop fresh perspectives for your whole church with a Sunday sermon interview. Conversational, relatable, and biblical, this interactive format with a host and Shaunti explores various topics from a biblical perspective – including marriage (gender differences, sex, money, etc.), parenting, or even broader faith topics drawn from Shaunti’s devotionals, Find Rest and Find Joy.
Women's Events
Laugh, find encouragement, and learn from the best of science AND scripture as Shaunti addresses the challenges of life common to women. Shaunti helps women better understand the men in their lives (For Women Only); she teaches about the simple power of kindness (The Kindness Challenge); and she encourages women from her devotionals: Find Peace, Find Balance, Find Rest, and Find Joy.
Parenting & Youth
Unlock the parental superpower of understanding your children! Through her nationally representative research, Shaunti will take you inside young people’s minds and help you learn about their longings. Based on For Parents Only, these encouraging, equipping talks are perfect for parents, grandparents, teachers, and young adults – and can stand on their own or be a powerful part of a marriage weekend.
Fundraising & Corporate
Discover how work relationships should work by booking Shaunti for corporate training. A former public policy analyst with experience in the banking industry, Shaunti brings the corporate and relationship worlds together through principles from The Kindness Challenge or The Male Factor. (She is also a great speaker for your next fundraising event—and she even likes to do "the ask.")
I wish you could have been a fly on a wall the past few days after Shaunti spoke at our women's event. Echos of "Shaunti was phenomenal" were everywhere among our team! I couldn't agree more. She has such a gift of authenticity and storytelling that bring her research to LIFE! Her talk was the best part of the night.
Taylor Scott, Radio Host, Salem Media Group
Speaking Sample
Sermon Interview Sample

We would love to share practical, encouraging, hope-filled lessons with your people. Call or email Nicole Owens to explore the speaking and event options (speaking@shaunti.com)!