Building Resilience β€” 6 Tips to Trade Helplessness for Healthy ControlΒ  (Part 2)

Building Resilience β€” 6 Tips to Trade Helplessness for Healthy ControlΒ  (Part 2)

This is part 2 of a four-part series on how to root out a sneaky pattern called β€œlearned helplessness” from our life and relationships. In part 1 , we described what this dynamic is and is not. In this part 2, we will look at how it tends to work in real life. In parts…

Building Resilience β€” 6 Tips to Trade Helplessness for Healthy ControlΒ 

Building Resilience β€” 6 Tips to Trade Helplessness for Healthy ControlΒ 

This is part 1 of a four-part series on how to root out a sneaky pattern called β€œlearned helplessness” from our life and relationships, and create resilience instead. We have never done a four-part series before, but are doing it this time because this concept has many practical applications across all of life. In the…

Closing Our Money β€œWorry Windows” 
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Closing Our Money β€œWorry Windows” 

Imagine the human mind as a computer screen, with each thought, feeling, or worry as one open window. Now imagine you have a dozen windows open – many thoughts or concerns bouncing around in your mind.   You probably want to close a few! But how?   In our book, Thriving in Love and Money, Jeff and…

Lessons on Perspective in the Dominican Republic

Lessons on Perspective in the Dominican Republic

Last month, my staff director Eileen Kirkland and I went on a five-day ministry trip to the Dominican Republic, visiting a series of areas where Compassion International works. I regularly speak and share about Compassion, but had not previously had a chance to see their on-the-ground work in person. Plus, I have two sponsored children…

Back-To-School Prep ­­– Add Kindness To The List

Back-To-School Prep ­­– Add Kindness To The List

I’m honored to bring you a guest blog this week from children’s author (and my former senior editor) Katie Kenny Phillips. Katie is β€œa writer for kids (and their grown-ups!)” and I invited her this week to write a guest blog that my readers have asked for – principles from The Kindness Challenge adapted for…