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  • Spending Doesn’t Fix Our Insides
    For Teens

    Spending Doesn’t Fix Our Insides

    ByShaunti Feldhahn October 7, 2025October 6, 2025

    Carissa is a sweet and social high school student who volunteers in the church nursery, gets good grades, and is respectful to adults. She occasionally gets stressed by homework or disagreeing with mom and dad about house rules, but she usually goes for a drive and comes back chatty and carefree.   At first, Carissa’s parents…

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  • Reflections on a week with 7,000 counselors and pastors
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    Reflections on a week with 7,000 counselors and pastors

    ByShaunti Feldhahn September 30, 2025September 29, 2025

    Every two years, roughly 7,000 counselors, pastors, coaches, and other leaders come together for the World Conference of the American Association of Christian Counselors (AACC) in Nashville. They spend the week absorbing plenary talks and worship times, learning from hundreds of continuing education workshops and speakers, exploring more than 100 exhibitors’ booths, and making connections…

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  • What To do ‘When Hurting People Come to Church’
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    What To do ‘When Hurting People Come to Church’

    ByShaunti Feldhahn September 23, 2025September 22, 2025

    Have you ever had to turn someone away? Maybe you’re an event planner with a wait list to a sold-out event. It could be that you’re a service manager, and you have to tell a customer it will be a week or more before a technician can fix their broken HVAC unit or their dryer…

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  • Try the ‘Next-Day Rule’ Hack for a Happier Marriage
    For Couples

    Try the ‘Next-Day Rule’ Hack for a Happier Marriage

    ByShaunti Feldhahn September 16, 2025September 15, 2025

    Do you want a simple hack that can help your husband be delightfully engaged—rather than accidentally prompting him to withdraw? Well, pull up a chair and take a few quick notes on what we call the “next-day rule.” This approach may not matter to every man, but in my research studies with men it’s pretty…

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  • 6 Ways to Talk about Gender Differences (Part 2)
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    6 Ways to Talk about Gender Differences (Part 2)

    ByShaunti Feldhahn September 9, 2025September 8, 2025

    I think we can probably all agree that we are living in a weird moment. Ten years ago, who would have thought that the concept of gender would become so convoluted and divisive? Sure, some people would get defensive at the idea of gender differences, but it wasn’t quite a “third rail” in the way…

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  • 6 Ways to Talk about Gender Differences (Part 1)
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    6 Ways to Talk about Gender Differences (Part 1)

    ByShaunti Feldhahn September 4, 2025September 3, 2025

    It seems like everywhere I turn lately—while being interviewed on a podcast, speaking at a church, or even talking to the person next to me on an airplane—people keep asking the same question: “Since you’ve done so much gender research, how do you respond to this hot-button topic these days?” They often follow up with:…

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Dreaming is really a way of saying, "I want to spe Dreaming is really a way of saying, "I want to spend the rest of my life with you." It tells your spouse that he's/she's still the one – and will always be the one. Ask your spouse dreaming questions.

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The strongest marriages aren't built by rowing har The strongest marriages aren't built by rowing harder. They're built by rowing together.

For more than two decades, we've spent our lives researching what helps relationships thrive.

Through our books, conferences, and events, we've had the privilege of sharing what we've learned with millions of people.
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Why do so many couples learn the most important lessons about marriage only after they're already struggling?

What if they could learn them before the wedding?

That's why we're launching Start Strong—a live premarital coaching experience where we'll personally guide small groups of engaged couples through four live 90-minute sessions, sharing the research, practical tools, and lessons we've gathered over the past 20+ years—and answering your questions along the way.

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Our men want to be good dads. They want to jump in Our men want to be good dads. They want to jump in – but they might hold back out of insecurity or uncertainty. Thankfully, most of the studies over the decades have found that when we women encourage our men and "allow" them to do their thing, they are more likely to jump in.

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Research shows that taking small steps in a specif Research shows that taking small steps in a specific direction over a longer time frame works. Doable, repetitive actions may seem too minor to matter, but they are much more likely to result in the actual changes we seek.

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And because we don't talk about it, we have no gri And because we don't talk about it, we have no grid for what else is going on out there – other than what we see on TV, which often does not match our experience! This is one of the most important issues in marriage, and it is also the one in which we can feel the most frustrated and alone.

Secrets of Sex & Marriage can help begin the conversation. 

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In my research on the 30-Day Kindness Challenge, n In my research on the 30-Day Kindness Challenge, no matter who did the Challenge or who their target person was, as long they practiced those 3 habits, 89% saw improvement in their relationships.

Join the Kindness Challenge today!

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Transitioning from parenting to coaching is crucia Transitioning from parenting to coaching is crucial when our kids leave the nest. But let's not forget to listen to their perspectives too. Discover the action steps our adult kids want us to know in my latest blog post.

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Are you curious about what your adult kids truly n Are you curious about what your adult kids truly need from you as a parent? Gain valuable insights from their own perspectives in my latest blog post. Don't miss the four action steps that emerged from our research and survey of young adults.

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