Seeing Love in the Blender: Appreciating Your Husband's Gift-Giving Style

Seeing Love in the Blender: Appreciating Your Husband's Gift-Giving Style

Dear Shaunti, I was really looking forward to our second Valentine’s Day together, until I unwrapped my present.  A blender.  He knows that I like jewelry, and he’s the one who likes smoothies. I got upset that he was being selfish, and then he got upset and said he had seen me looking at that…

Highly Happy Marriages Secret #5: You Can Change Your Feelings

Highly Happy Marriages Secret #5: You Can Change Your Feelings

Author note: This is one of a series giving a sneak peek into what I discovered about what makes happy marriages so happy!  After years of nationally-representative research with more than 1,000 couples, I reveal the twelve most important little habits in The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Marriages: The Little Things That Make a…