A sincere plea from someone who doesn't want to see Kardashian's nude selfie but isn't a "slut shamer"

A sincere plea from someone who doesn't want to see Kardashian's nude selfie but isn't a "slut shamer"

Unless you’ve been under a rock, you’ve heardΒ about Kim Kardashian’s nude selfie. Β Yes, that’s the kind of culture we live in now: the kind in which you know that Kim Kardashian apparently had “nothing to wear.” The kind in which, as Bette Midler pointed out, the only way Kardashian could show us anything we hadn’t…

3 Lies You Can’t Let Your Son Believe About Himself

3 Lies You Can’t Let Your Son Believe About Himself

As both a social researcher who has interviewed and surveyed thousands of boys and a mom of a son, I’ve seen three common – and very harmful –things boys tend to believe about themselves. Β Mom and Dad, keep an eye out, so you can knock down this nonsense whenever it rears its ugly head! 1. β€œI’m…

In Honor of My Mother-in-Law (1926 – 2016): Three Reasons They Had 65 Wonderful Years of Marriage

In Honor of My Mother-in-Law (1926 – 2016): Three Reasons They Had 65 Wonderful Years of Marriage

My sweet mother-in-law went to be with Jesus last night. We are grieving, but we are also so grateful for how Roberta Feldhahn graced this earth for 90 years. We are also praying for Jeff’s sweet dad, who is so missing his bride of 65 years. In honor of Jeff’s mom and dad, and in…

Why not take the test drive? – Part 2Β (More on cohabitation, getting engaged, and getting committed)

Why not take the test drive? – Part 2Β (More on cohabitation, getting engaged, and getting committed)

Last week, I posted an article,Β “Why not take the test drive? The case against cohabitation,” on the unseen dangers of cohabitation before marriage. (As a recap: research shows that couples who live together without being engaged have a greater chance of divorce if they do get married; cohabitation increases the chances of ignoring red flags…

Why not take the test drive? The case against cohabitation

Why not take the test drive? The case against cohabitation

Dear Shaunti, Β  I’m a pastor who works with young couples.Β  As you know, most people live together before they get married and I can’t figure out how to talk to them about it.Β  I know from scripture that it’s a bad idea, but couples always ask β€œBut why?”  To them, it just seems logical…

Wives, Don’t Punish Your Husband For Being Visual

Wives, Don’t Punish Your Husband For Being Visual

Tip #57: Women, don’t punish your husband for being visual I couldn’t believe it when I saw one wife’s comment about what she did when she found that her husband had been viewing pornography. Understandably shocked and hurt, she next did something I found hard to understand. She not only refused to have sex with…