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  • Always Suspicious of Your Spouse (or Others)? Here’s What To Do! (Nix the Negativity, Part 1)
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    Always Suspicious of Your Spouse (or Others)? Here’s What To Do! (Nix the Negativity, Part 1)

    ByShaunti Feldhahn November 14, 2023November 13, 2023

    This is Part 1 of a three-part series to help us nix the negative patterns that may be damaging our relationships. This week focuses on the solution for an often-subconscious mindset of suspicion. Next week – Thanksgiving week – we’ll look at how to practice gratitude over grumbling. The final week … well, stay tuned. The…

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  • 7 Date Night Do’s and Don’ts (Part 2)
    For Couples

    7 Date Night Do’s and Don’ts (Part 2)

    ByShaunti Feldhahn November 7, 2023November 6, 2023

    This is Part 2 of a two-part series on date night ideas that can help keep your marriage connected, fun, and functioning! See Part 1 for the first three do’s and don’ts. You want to breathe new life into your marriage, and you know a date night is a great way to do that. But…

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  • 7 Date Night Do’s and Don’ts (Part 1)
    For Couples

    7 Date Night Do’s and Don’ts (Part 1)

    ByShaunti Feldhahn October 31, 2023October 29, 2023

    Want to keep your marriage fresh and connected? We’ll cover three date night do’s and don’ts this week in Part 1 and four next week in Part 2. Date night. Have two words ever caused more expectation and pressure for couples? (Well, maybe “sex life,” but we’ll get to that in next week’s part 2!)…

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  • Broken Trust in a Relationship? Here’s What To Do
    For Couples

    Broken Trust in a Relationship? Here’s What To Do

    ByShaunti Feldhahn October 24, 2023November 13, 2023

    A note from Shaunti: I’ve invited my friend Jill Savage, a speaker, author, marriage coach and podcaster, to guest blog this week on the topic of broken trust. From my research, I know this is an essential topic that requires specialized knowledge and counsel. Jill and her husband Mark are very open about the steps…

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  • 7 Steps to Keep Defensiveness from Ruining Our Relationships (Part 2)
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    7 Steps to Keep Defensiveness from Ruining Our Relationships (Part 2)

    ByShaunti Feldhahn October 17, 2023October 17, 2023

    This is Part 2 of a two-part series on how to reduce defensiveness and have better mental health as well as more peace and productivity in your personal and professional relationships. As we explained last time, defensiveness is dangerous in marriage and relationships (friends, family, workplace, and so on). How do we interrupt the cycle…

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  • 7 Steps to Keep Defensiveness from Ruining Our Relationships (Part 1)
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    7 Steps to Keep Defensiveness from Ruining Our Relationships (Part 1)

    ByShaunti Feldhahn October 10, 2023October 9, 2023

    This is Part 1 of a two-part series on how to notice and address defensiveness in yourself, to both have better mental health individually and much more peace and productivity in your personal and professional relationships.  One of the privileges of my work is hearing from readers or event attendees who get an “a-ha” moment…

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Dreaming is really a way of saying, "I want to spe Dreaming is really a way of saying, "I want to spend the rest of my life with you." It tells your spouse that he's/she's still the one – and will always be the one. Ask your spouse dreaming questions.

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The strongest marriages aren't built by rowing har The strongest marriages aren't built by rowing harder. They're built by rowing together.

For more than two decades, we've spent our lives researching what helps relationships thrive.

Through our books, conferences, and events, we've had the privilege of sharing what we've learned with millions of people.
But one question kept nagging at us:

Why do so many couples learn the most important lessons about marriage only after they're already struggling?

What if they could learn them before the wedding?

That's why we're launching Start Strong—a live premarital coaching experience where we'll personally guide small groups of engaged couples through four live 90-minute sessions, sharing the research, practical tools, and lessons we've gathered over the past 20+ years—and answering your questions along the way.

Because great marriages rarely happen by accident.

They are built intentionally.

If you're engaged—or know someone who is—we'd love to have you join us.

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Our men want to be good dads. They want to jump in Our men want to be good dads. They want to jump in – but they might hold back out of insecurity or uncertainty. Thankfully, most of the studies over the decades have found that when we women encourage our men and "allow" them to do their thing, they are more likely to jump in.

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Research shows that taking small steps in a specif Research shows that taking small steps in a specific direction over a longer time frame works. Doable, repetitive actions may seem too minor to matter, but they are much more likely to result in the actual changes we seek.

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And because we don't talk about it, we have no gri And because we don't talk about it, we have no grid for what else is going on out there – other than what we see on TV, which often does not match our experience! This is one of the most important issues in marriage, and it is also the one in which we can feel the most frustrated and alone.

Secrets of Sex & Marriage can help begin the conversation. 

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In my research on the 30-Day Kindness Challenge, n In my research on the 30-Day Kindness Challenge, no matter who did the Challenge or who their target person was, as long they practiced those 3 habits, 89% saw improvement in their relationships.

Join the Kindness Challenge today!

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Transitioning from parenting to coaching is crucia Transitioning from parenting to coaching is crucial when our kids leave the nest. But let's not forget to listen to their perspectives too. Discover the action steps our adult kids want us to know in my latest blog post.

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Are you curious about what your adult kids truly n Are you curious about what your adult kids truly need from you as a parent? Gain valuable insights from their own perspectives in my latest blog post. Don't miss the four action steps that emerged from our research and survey of young adults.

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