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  • A Big Day: Busting Discouraging Myths About Marriage — PLEASE HELP!
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    A Big Day: Busting Discouraging Myths About Marriage — PLEASE HELP!

    ByShaunti Feldhahn May 6, 2014

    A BIG BIG BIG DAY! And a personal favor to ask you! Today is the culmination of eight years of intense effort, late nights, shocking discoveries, God-holding-my-feet-to-the-fire drive, and immense hope for change –and I am going to ask all of you, my friends, for your help. I have never asked this before, but please,…

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  • How Do I Get My Teen to Comply Without Complaining?
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    How Do I Get My Teen to Comply Without Complaining?

    ByShaunti Feldhahn May 5, 2014

    Dear Shaunti, I am constantly butting heads with my 14 year-old daughter. Yesterday, she asked if she could go to a concert with a group of kids that I don’t know. With her friend’s 16 year-old brother as the driver! I said “no” to that idea before she even finished talking! She’s been pouting ever…

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  • Don’t Give the Death Sentence for a Misdemeanor Crime
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    Don’t Give the Death Sentence for a Misdemeanor Crime

    ByShaunti Feldhahn April 28, 2014

    Dear Shaunti, My 16-year-old son came home an hour past curfew over the weekend – walked in like it was no big deal! “Hey, sorry my battery was dead so I couldn’t text you.” And then when he saw how upset we were he was like, “It was only an hour!” We said, “Yeah, well,…

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  • Filling the Emotional Bank Account: The need for emotional closeness before physical closeness
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    Filling the Emotional Bank Account: The need for emotional closeness before physical closeness

    ByShaunti Feldhahn April 22, 2014

    So, guys, you’ve just had a big fight with your wife and now you’re ready to cool off and mend the relationship. What better way to make up than to spend a little intimate time together, right? Just one little problem, though: physical intimacy is the farthest thing from her mind. What’s the deal? For…

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  • Don't Force Your Sex Life into Hibernation Mode By Choosing Sleep Over Sex
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    Don't Force Your Sex Life into Hibernation Mode By Choosing Sleep Over Sex

    ByShaunti Feldhahn April 21, 2014

    Dear Shaunti, We have young kids, and often I’m so exhausted that I just want to go to sleep without my husband trying to start something. Most of the time I have absolutely no interest in sex late at night, after running afternoon carpool, juggling karate and ballet lessons, making dinner, helping with homework (my…

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  • Crime and Punishment: When Do Teens Deserve Cell-Phone Restriction?
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    Crime and Punishment: When Do Teens Deserve Cell-Phone Restriction?

    ByShaunti Feldhahn April 17, 2014

    Dear Shaunti, Undoubtedly, the most effective punishment for my teenage daughter is taking away her cell phone. There’s just one little problem: she freaks out when I do. I’m certain I’d get less of a freak-out if I ordered her to sleep in a box in the yard for a week (hmmm…) What’s her deal?…

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Dreaming is really a way of saying, "I want to spe Dreaming is really a way of saying, "I want to spend the rest of my life with you." It tells your spouse that he's/she's still the one – and will always be the one. Ask your spouse dreaming questions.

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The strongest marriages aren't built by rowing har The strongest marriages aren't built by rowing harder. They're built by rowing together.

For more than two decades, we've spent our lives researching what helps relationships thrive.

Through our books, conferences, and events, we've had the privilege of sharing what we've learned with millions of people.
But one question kept nagging at us:

Why do so many couples learn the most important lessons about marriage only after they're already struggling?

What if they could learn them before the wedding?

That's why we're launching Start Strong—a live premarital coaching experience where we'll personally guide small groups of engaged couples through four live 90-minute sessions, sharing the research, practical tools, and lessons we've gathered over the past 20+ years—and answering your questions along the way.

Because great marriages rarely happen by accident.

They are built intentionally.

If you're engaged—or know someone who is—we'd love to have you join us.

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Our men want to be good dads. They want to jump in Our men want to be good dads. They want to jump in – but they might hold back out of insecurity or uncertainty. Thankfully, most of the studies over the decades have found that when we women encourage our men and "allow" them to do their thing, they are more likely to jump in.

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Research shows that taking small steps in a specif Research shows that taking small steps in a specific direction over a longer time frame works. Doable, repetitive actions may seem too minor to matter, but they are much more likely to result in the actual changes we seek.

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And because we don't talk about it, we have no gri And because we don't talk about it, we have no grid for what else is going on out there – other than what we see on TV, which often does not match our experience! This is one of the most important issues in marriage, and it is also the one in which we can feel the most frustrated and alone.

Secrets of Sex & Marriage can help begin the conversation. 

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In my research on the 30-Day Kindness Challenge, n In my research on the 30-Day Kindness Challenge, no matter who did the Challenge or who their target person was, as long they practiced those 3 habits, 89% saw improvement in their relationships.

Join the Kindness Challenge today!

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Transitioning from parenting to coaching is crucia Transitioning from parenting to coaching is crucial when our kids leave the nest. But let's not forget to listen to their perspectives too. Discover the action steps our adult kids want us to know in my latest blog post.

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Are you curious about what your adult kids truly n Are you curious about what your adult kids truly need from you as a parent? Gain valuable insights from their own perspectives in my latest blog post. Don't miss the four action steps that emerged from our research and survey of young adults.

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