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  • Complaining kills, but discussion heals
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    Complaining kills, but discussion heals

    ByShaunti Feldhahn June 22, 2015July 31, 2018

    Dear Shaunti, I know you’re a researcher, but I think most marriage researchers are off the mark. See, I’m a direct person; that’s just how I roll.  And think in marriage it’s important to get things off our chest and let the other person know when they are doing something that bugs us. So I…

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  • Wives: Learn and relate to the man your husband is, not who you think he “should” be.
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    Wives: Learn and relate to the man your husband is, not who you think he “should” be.

    ByShaunti Feldhahn June 22, 2015July 31, 2018

    Tip #55: Wives: Learn and relate to the man your husband is, not who you think he “should” be. For many of us women, it is easy to carry around a subconscious ideal about what our husband should be doing for us, only to be disappointed when our expectations are unmet, and assume he doesn’t…

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  • How do I deflate my teenage son’s oversized ego and curb the cockiness?
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    How do I deflate my teenage son’s oversized ego and curb the cockiness?

    ByShaunti Feldhahn June 15, 2015July 31, 2018

    Dear Shaunti, I’m a single mom to two teenage boys, and because their dad was an arrogant man I’m highly sensitive to teenage cockiness.  I really want to teach the boys humility.  My 17 year old is fine, but my 15 year old is convinced he’s God’s gift to his school, every girl he meets,…

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    The 30-Day Kindness Challenge is Almost Here! (Pre-Launch – Men)

    ByShaunti Feldhahn June 15, 2015

    For all current information about The 30-Day Kindness Challenge, including Shaunti’s new book The Kindness Challenge, please click here. The 30 Day Kindness Challenge is almost here! I hope you’ll join us for the 30-Day Kindness Challenge to give new enjoyment to your marriage, make your wife happy, and have great peace in your home! About…

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    The 30-Day Kindness Challenge is Almost Here! (Pre-Launch – Women)

    ByShaunti Feldhahn June 15, 2015

    For all current information about The 30-Day Kindness Challenge, including Shaunti’s new book The Kindness Challenge, please click here. The 30 Day Kindness Challenge is almost here! I hope you’ll join us for the 30-Day Kindness Challenge to give new life, health and enjoyment to your marriage or dating relationship!  You can join us by signing…

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    Today Starts The 30-Day Kindness Challenge! (Day One – Men of CWC)

    ByShaunti Feldhahn June 15, 2015

    For all current information about The 30-Day Kindness Challenge, including Shaunti’s new book The Kindness Challenge, please click here. Today Starts The 30-Day Kindness Challenge! And weeeeee’re off!  The starter’s gun has fired and you’re off and running on a thirty day marathon that will lead to some great encouragement in your lives and marriages….

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Dreaming is really a way of saying, "I want to spe Dreaming is really a way of saying, "I want to spend the rest of my life with you." It tells your spouse that he's/she's still the one – and will always be the one. Ask your spouse dreaming questions.

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The strongest marriages aren't built by rowing har The strongest marriages aren't built by rowing harder. They're built by rowing together.

For more than two decades, we've spent our lives researching what helps relationships thrive.

Through our books, conferences, and events, we've had the privilege of sharing what we've learned with millions of people.
But one question kept nagging at us:

Why do so many couples learn the most important lessons about marriage only after they're already struggling?

What if they could learn them before the wedding?

That's why we're launching Start Strong—a live premarital coaching experience where we'll personally guide small groups of engaged couples through four live 90-minute sessions, sharing the research, practical tools, and lessons we've gathered over the past 20+ years—and answering your questions along the way.

Because great marriages rarely happen by accident.

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Our men want to be good dads. They want to jump in Our men want to be good dads. They want to jump in – but they might hold back out of insecurity or uncertainty. Thankfully, most of the studies over the decades have found that when we women encourage our men and "allow" them to do their thing, they are more likely to jump in.

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Research shows that taking small steps in a specif Research shows that taking small steps in a specific direction over a longer time frame works. Doable, repetitive actions may seem too minor to matter, but they are much more likely to result in the actual changes we seek.

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And because we don't talk about it, we have no gri And because we don't talk about it, we have no grid for what else is going on out there – other than what we see on TV, which often does not match our experience! This is one of the most important issues in marriage, and it is also the one in which we can feel the most frustrated and alone.

Secrets of Sex & Marriage can help begin the conversation. 

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In my research on the 30-Day Kindness Challenge, n In my research on the 30-Day Kindness Challenge, no matter who did the Challenge or who their target person was, as long they practiced those 3 habits, 89% saw improvement in their relationships.

Join the Kindness Challenge today!

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Transitioning from parenting to coaching is crucia Transitioning from parenting to coaching is crucial when our kids leave the nest. But let's not forget to listen to their perspectives too. Discover the action steps our adult kids want us to know in my latest blog post.

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Are you curious about what your adult kids truly n Are you curious about what your adult kids truly need from you as a parent? Gain valuable insights from their own perspectives in my latest blog post. Don't miss the four action steps that emerged from our research and survey of young adults.

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