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  • Is your wife worried about something? 3 things to NEVER say.
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    Is your wife worried about something? 3 things to NEVER say.

    ByShaunti Feldhahn November 25, 2015October 16, 2017

    1. “Just don’t think about it.” Women have no idea what that means. If she’s worried that her best friend suddenly isn’t talking to her, she has no way to not think about it.  As men, you have this amazing ability to close out an unwelcome thought – almost like closing out a window on your computer…

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  • How men think they HAVE to speak to women … and the better approach!
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    How men think they HAVE to speak to women … and the better approach!

    ByShaunti Feldhahn November 20, 2015

    My niece posted this online and I’m trying not to laugh out loud, because this is EXACTLY how men think they HAVE to speak to women – and, uh, yeah, sometimes they DO! (If you don’t drink, forgive me in advance for finding this really amusing.) But that said, there’s a serious point here. In real life,…

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  • When She Has the Stronger Sex Drive; Part Three
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    When She Has the Stronger Sex Drive; Part Three

    ByShaunti Feldhahn November 19, 2015

    This is the third and final article in a 3-part series written by Christian Sex Therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma, offering hope, encouragement, and direction to wives who have a stronger sexual drive than their husbands.  In Part One and Part Two, Dr. Sytsma pointed out that wives with a stronger sexual drive than their husbands…

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  • How do I convince my wife to let me see her body?
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    How do I convince my wife to let me see her body?

    ByShaunti Feldhahn November 17, 2015

    Dear Shaunti, OK, awkward question but here goes: how can I convince my wife to let me see her in all her glory?  We have a decent sex life, we don’t have any real marriage problems, and I’m careful to not check out other women.  But she still seems to feel like how she looks…

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  • When She Has the Stronger Sex Drive; Part Two
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    When She Has the Stronger Sex Drive; Part Two

    ByShaunti Feldhahn November 17, 2015

    This is the second of three articles in a series written by Christian Sex Therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma, offering hope, encouragement, and direction to wives who have a stronger sexual drive than their husbands.  In Part One, Dr. Sytsma encouraged these women to first create a good environment for communication, make sure they are managing…

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  • When She Has the Stronger Sex Drive; Part One
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    When She Has the Stronger Sex Drive; Part One

    ByShaunti Feldhahn November 12, 2015December 20, 2017

    I’m thrilled to share a series of three important guest articles by nationally-recognized sex therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma, offering hope, encouragement, and direction to wives who have a stronger sexual drive than their husbands – a situation that probably happens in one of five marriages.

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Ready to take your relationships to the next level Ready to take your relationships to the next level? Look no further! Access the game-changing insights you need to improve your relationships with Shaunti & Jeff's digital courses. Discover the secrets to understanding your spouse on a deeper level and cultivating stronger connections. Enroll now and unlock the potential for thriving relationships.

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Friends, in the end, if we decide to trust God wit Friends, in the end, if we decide to trust God with our seasons of life, we'll see how trustworthy He is. He's been with us before and He'll be with us again. Our best bet is to focus on what God wants us to do now and embrace the beauty of our current season.
If we want to create a great relationship, we have If we want to create a great relationship, we have to recognize that what is second-nature to us isn't always second-nature to our spouse! Just as important, what they need probably doesn't come naturally to us, either. This week's blog post gives you 4 steps that will help you both connect on what is most crucial.

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In nearly 8 out of 10 highly happy marriages, each In nearly 8 out of 10 highly happy marriages, each spouse gives credit to their mate!

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Feeling weighed down and not sure why? You might Feeling weighed down and not sure why?

You might be holding onto more than you realize…

In Emotional Hoarding, my friend, Laurie Davies shares how letting go of worry, regret, and shame can lead to the freedom God has for you.

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I recently came across a conversation that really I recently came across a conversation that really made me pause and I wanted to share it because I think so many people can relate.
A young man shared that he'd been dating an amazing woman for over a year and a half and saw a future with her… but hadn't talked to her about it yet. Why? Because he wanted to wait until he felt more financially secure.

It got me thinking about how often we believe we're protecting someone's heart by waiting, when in reality, the lack of clarity can create more uncertainty than reassurance.

In this blog, I dive into what truly gives a woman a sense of security in a relationship—and why it's often not what we assume.
If you're dating, engaged, or even just thinking about the future, this is definitely worth a read.

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Dating and Waiting—What Really Gives your Girlfriend a Sense of Security (part 2) https://shaunti.com/2026/04/dating-and-waiting-what-really-gives-your-girlfriend-a-sense-of-security-part-2/
"Why is this taking so long?" If you've ever aske "Why is this taking so long?"

If you've ever asked that in a relationship… you're not alone.

Waiting for clarity can feel frustrating—especially when you know what you want.

But sometimes the deeper question isn't just what is he doing?
It's…can I trust him in the process?

Because how you handle this season doesn't just affect today—
it shapes the kind of relationship you'll have later.

If this hit home, I go deeper into this in my latest article

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Dating and Waiting—What Every Dating Woman Needs to Know About Men (part 1) https://shaunti.com/2026/04/dating-and-waiting-what-every-dating-woman-needs-to-know-about-men-part-1/
In this episode, Laurie Davies shares how emotiona In this episode, Laurie Davies shares how emotional hoarding can disconnect us from the peace and freedom God wants for us and how to finally let go.

If you've been feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or weighed down… this conversation is for you.

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