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  • Moms: 4 things your son secretly wishes you knew about his temptations
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    Moms: 4 things your son secretly wishes you knew about his temptations

    ByShaunti Feldhahn January 7, 2016

    Moms: 4 things your son secretly wishes you knew about his temptations Even after years of researching what is in the heart and mind of men and boys, I still wasn’t quite ready when my pre-teen son began struggling with the same visual temptations as everyone else!  In honor of all boys who want to…

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  • Want a Truly Happy Holiday? Four Ways You Should “Let It Go”
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    Want a Truly Happy Holiday? Four Ways You Should “Let It Go”

    ByShaunti Feldhahn December 21, 2015

    Embed from Getty Images “Let It Go” is more than a Frozen anthem for the pre-school set.  It’s also a hard-core success strategy for giving yourself – and those around you — a truly happy holiday!  I saw the power of a few of these little actions in the research for The Surprising Secrets of…

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  • 3 things every boy needs from his mom
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    3 things every boy needs from his mom

    ByShaunti Feldhahn December 16, 2015October 16, 2017

    In more than a decade of research with thousands of men and boys over the years, one thing that has stood out is the power of a mom’s words to build her son up – or (accidentally) tear him down.  Whether your son is five or fifteen, several phrases are a big, big deal.  Here…

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  • We're a fan of iDisciple – and we think you will be, too!
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    We're a fan of iDisciple – and we think you will be, too!

    ByShaunti Feldhahn December 14, 2015

    We’re a fan of iDisciple – and we think you will be, too! Check out iDisciple, a platform that provides an engaging on-the-go resource for growing closer to Christ. We hope you enjoy the app! You also can find additional content from Shaunti using iDisciple’s Life Themes, which brings transformational content to your fingertips. We know your…

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  • For Women: Five Reasons to Have Sex with the Lights On
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    For Women: Five Reasons to Have Sex with the Lights On

    ByShaunti Feldhahn December 7, 2015

    Yes, the idea is scary for many women!  But in 12 years of researching the things our husbands wish we knew but don’t know how to say, I heard the heart behind this wish – and saw five surprising reasons to take the risk. When he knows you want him, it increases intimacy.  A husband is…

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  • Ladies, do you know how to support your normal, visually-wired husband in this abnormal culture? 4 actions that matter
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    Ladies, do you know how to support your normal, visually-wired husband in this abnormal culture? 4 actions that matter

    ByShaunti Feldhahn December 2, 2015

    1. Show him you’re someone he can talk to about it. Regardless of where your man lands on the visual temptation spectrum, a calm conversation is the starting point.  But many men are hesitant to talk, since they are convinced their wives will never understand – or, worse, will be hurt.  So no matter what you’re…

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It's Finally Here: The Small-Group Marriage Study It's Finally Here: The Small-Group Marriage Study You've Been Waiting For!

I am thrilled to introduce our brand new Small-Group Marriage Study that is specifically designed to help couples seeking to deepen their connection and enrich their marriage! 
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Friends, in the end, if we decide to trust God wit Friends, in the end, if we decide to trust God with our seasons of life, we'll see how trustworthy He is. He's been with us before and He'll be with us again. Our best bet is to focus on what God wants us to do now and embrace the beauty of our current season.
If we want to create a great relationship, we have If we want to create a great relationship, we have to recognize that what is second-nature to us isn't always second-nature to our spouse! Just as important, what they need probably doesn't come naturally to us, either. This week's blog post gives you 4 steps that will help you both connect on what is most crucial.

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In nearly 8 out of 10 highly happy marriages, each In nearly 8 out of 10 highly happy marriages, each spouse gives credit to their mate!

Read more in The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Marriages.

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Feeling weighed down and not sure why? You might Feeling weighed down and not sure why?

You might be holding onto more than you realize…

In Emotional Hoarding, my friend, Laurie Davies shares how letting go of worry, regret, and shame can lead to the freedom God has for you.

If you've been feeling stuck, this is for you

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I recently came across a conversation that really I recently came across a conversation that really made me pause and I wanted to share it because I think so many people can relate.
A young man shared that he'd been dating an amazing woman for over a year and a half and saw a future with her… but hadn't talked to her about it yet. Why? Because he wanted to wait until he felt more financially secure.

It got me thinking about how often we believe we're protecting someone's heart by waiting, when in reality, the lack of clarity can create more uncertainty than reassurance.

In this blog, I dive into what truly gives a woman a sense of security in a relationship—and why it's often not what we assume.
If you're dating, engaged, or even just thinking about the future, this is definitely worth a read.

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Dating and Waiting—What Really Gives your Girlfriend a Sense of Security (part 2) https://shaunti.com/2026/04/dating-and-waiting-what-really-gives-your-girlfriend-a-sense-of-security-part-2/
"Why is this taking so long?" If you've ever aske "Why is this taking so long?"

If you've ever asked that in a relationship… you're not alone.

Waiting for clarity can feel frustrating—especially when you know what you want.

But sometimes the deeper question isn't just what is he doing?
It's…can I trust him in the process?

Because how you handle this season doesn't just affect today—
it shapes the kind of relationship you'll have later.

If this hit home, I go deeper into this in my latest article

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Dating and Waiting—What Every Dating Woman Needs to Know About Men (part 1) https://shaunti.com/2026/04/dating-and-waiting-what-every-dating-woman-needs-to-know-about-men-part-1/

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