Today (January 16, 2017) marks a big day: the launch of the 30-Day Kindness Challenge nationwide!
Although you can start it at any time – and will see a marked improvement in your relationships if you do – we encourage people to start TODAY if you can!
Why?
Thirty days from today is Valentine’s Day. And the 30-Day Kindness Challenge allows you to give the best Valentine’s Day present you’ve ever given: A month-long journal of praise.
As you do the 30-Day Kindness Challenge (see below), you’ll be finding things to verbally affirm or praise about a particular person you care about (a spouse, romantic partner, child…). Well, in addition, secretly buy a gift journal. Record in it those words of affirmation each day. Track what happens as you do the Challenge, and the ways you begin to appreciate that person more and more. (Based on our years of research, that is what will happen!)
Then at the end of the 30 days, wrap up that gift journal and give it as a very special Valentine’s Day present.
Not only will you have the experience of watching your relationship with your spouse (or child, or sibling…) blossom and grow, you’ll have the experience of watching their face as they open a present they will keep for a lifetime. A written record of day after day after day of you contemplating the wonderful things you appreciate, love and value about them.
Sign up for the 30-Day Kindness Challenge TODAY. It will be life-changing. Not just for your person – but for you!
(What is the Challenge? First, say nothing negative about your person – either to them or about them to someone else! Second, find one thing to praise each day and tell them and tell someone else. Third, do a small action of generosity for them. See www.jointhekindnesschallenge.com for more!)
Want to know how to be kind, when you really don’t want to be? My research uncovered three daily actions that will transform your relationships – and you. Order The Kindness Challenge and start the 30-Day Kindness Challenge today!
Shaunti Feldhahn loves sharing eye-opening information that helps people thrive in life and relationships. She herself started out with a Harvard graduate degree and Wall Street credentials but no clue about life. After an unexpected shift into relationship research for average, clueless people like her, she now is a popular speaker and author of best-selling books about men, women and relationships. (Including For Women Only, For Men Only, and the groundbreaking The Good News About Marriage).
Her newest book, The Kindness Challenge demonstrates that kindness is the answer to pretty much every life problem, and is sparking a much-needed movement of kindness across the country. Visit www.shaunti.com for more.
I would love to join the team, even if I’m bit. Late. One thing I know every man wants to see their marriage grow stronger like me.
I realized as I was listening to the focus on the family with Jim Daly, John Fuller and Shaunti Feldhahn, that I fall very short in affirming my husband and Just listening opened my eyes to my own negativity. I am getting the book as soon as possible because I am realizing that I can be very negative by constantly hanging on to him getting his part right,even though..he is a good husband, I often don’t feel affirmed myself because we don’t know eacothers love lanquage.But God’s love language is kindness no matter what.