Financial Security/Emotional Security

Security Defined

Many guys that I know often feel like they are caught between a rock and a hard place.  They are busting their tails at work, feeling the stress and sometimes putting in long hours so that they can provide for their families – provide a lifestyle that they think their wives need and want.  Yet, all too often they feel…read more →

Loving Her Anyway

If it seems like your wife is picking fights, it’s not to be cruel; she is subconsciously making sure you love her, no matter what.  


Shaunti discusses men’s hidden and unrecognized insecurities.

For Men Only Audio Book

You love her, you plan to spend the rest of your life with her, but you just can’t figure her out! Thanks to bestselling author Shaunti Feldhahn and her husband Jeff you now can have a reliable “map” of what makes women tick. Culled from hundreds of interviews and scientific research, the Feldhahns debunk the notion that women are complicated…read more →

Depression Bandaid

Struggling with depression in your marriage?  Be encouraged with this article and know that you are not alone. One of my foundational teachings from my research is that we women want (and need) our husbands to love us even when we are unlovely, while men need us to respect them even when they may make mistakes.  I have tons of…read more →

Financial vs. Emotional Security

Would my wife really choose to give up financial benefits for me to be home more?  By Jackie Coleman You’re slaving away at work, even picking up a few extra hours so the family vacation will be covered. Drained, exhausted, and frustrated from the day, you come home to your family—the people you are really working for. But to your…read more →

Fighting Back with Love

Women often unintentionally push their man away when she’s hurt and upset about something to see if he really loves her enough to pursue her.  We can be prickly and unloving when we feel insecure or hurt.  But usually what we need in that moment when we are the most difficult to love, is a gentle, persistent reassurance that you…read more →

Behind Superman

No matter how confident a guy seems on the outside, he is hiding a lot of self-doubt on the inside.

Unwanted Intrusive Thoughts

Men can’t NOT notice an attractive woman, and sometimes those thoughts pop up in his brain…whether he wants them to or not!