How to Talk and Listen

Win a Marriage Library – with the Christian Marriage Author Pinterest Board

Win a Marriage Library of TWELVE Books–with the Christian Marriage Author Pinterest Board! I am so excited about being a part of the new Christian Marriage Authors Pinterest board, started by an amazing woman, Sheila Wray Gregoire! The board features a bunch of great Christian authors who have lots of great insight and wisdom to share about marriage from many different…read more →

Marriage Monday: Understand How Each Other Processes Emotions

Tip #30: Understand how each other will process strong emotions differently, to have better communication. We have all heard the funny saying men are from Mars and women are from Venus, however when it comes to processing strong emotions, this could be close to the truth! And understanding those differences will give you much better communication – especially when you…read more →

She Would Rather Have Your Ear

When we conducted a national survey of women for our book, For Men Only, my husband Jeff and I learned that one of the highest felt needs for many women was for their husbands to listen to them.  Now, every guy has heard, ‘she doesn’t want you to fix it, she just wants you to listen.’ Most recently, this point…read more →

Loving Her Anyway

If it seems like your wife is picking fights, it’s not to be cruel; she is subconsciously making sure you love her, no matter what.  


Shaunti discusses men’s hidden and unrecognized insecurities.

What Men Need Most From the Woman They Love

While we women enjoy hearing our man tell us “I love you” often to reassure us of his love, men are not affected by hearing us say, “Honey, I respect you” but they do love to hear things like “I’m so proud of you” and “I trust you.”  But signaling respect to our man goes far beyond those few words. …read more →

Q & A Visually Wired

Shaunti explains how the brain wiring of men causes them to receive visual input and cautions women about reacting  to this physiological design in a way that actually distances them from their spouse.              

Q & A Taking Thoughts Captive Too

A man who wants to honor God and the woman he loves will fight against the temptation to indulge in intrusive thoughts about other women.  

For Men Only Audio Book

You love her, you plan to spend the rest of your life with her, but you just can’t figure her out! Thanks to bestselling author Shaunti Feldhahn and her husband Jeff you now can have a reliable “map” of what makes women tick. Culled from hundreds of interviews and scientific research, the Feldhahns debunk the notion that women are complicated…read more →