Is Your Insecurity Making You a Controlling and Disconnected Spouse?
The attempt to control everything can end up pushing away those we love most. It’s a vicious and maddening cycle, but you can get out of it.
The attempt to control everything can end up pushing away those we love most. It’s a vicious and maddening cycle, but you can get out of it.
There are definite reasons wives keep checking in on the state of their marriage relationship and guys, it’s important to be aware of what might be triggering your wife and her insecurity.
If it seems like your wife is picking fights, it’s not to be cruel; she is subconsciously making sure you love her, no matter what.
Shaunti discusses men’s hidden and unrecognized insecurities.
Women never stop needing or loving to be pursued, and when they feel pursued by their man, it adds to their sense of security in a relationship.
Women often unintentionally push their man away when she’s hurt and upset about something to see if he really loves her enough to pursue her. We can be prickly and unloving when we feel insecure or hurt. But usually what we need in that moment when we are the most difficult to love, is a…