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Killing the Divorce Myth With Kindness

December 10, 2014 by Shaunti Feldhahn 4 Comments

Many of you have written to me asking what I think about this The Atlantic article, “Masters of Love,” that has been making the rounds in cyberspace. The article shares some key research by one of my research heroes, John Gottman, and his wife Julie, about how to get to “happily ever after” in marriage and […]

Filed Under: Appreciation, Attitude, Surprising Secrets, Surprising Secrets book

Marriage Monday: Avoid Painful Disrespect by Thinking Ahead

September 15, 2014 by Shaunti Feldhahn Leave a Comment

Marriage Tip: Wives, since processing your husband’s decisions out loud can sometimes come across as painful disrespect or questioning his judgment, think in advance about how to say it so he doesn’t misunderstand what you are saying. Has your husband ever gotten upset when you start talking through a suggestion he’s brought to you? Yeah? […]

Filed Under: Appreciation, Commitment, Good News About Marriage, Good News About Marriage Book, Love, Marriage, The Good News About Marriage, Time

Marriage Monday: Be All-In – and Don't Believe the Myth of the High Divorce Rate

September 8, 2014 by Shaunti Feldhahn Leave a Comment

Marriage Tip: In a second marriage, be “all in” instead of trying to protect yourself… and don’t believe the myth of the high divorce rate. If you’re on your second marriage, you’ve probably heard – many times! – that your odds aren’t good. Maybe your first marriage ended in divorce and you entered a new […]

Filed Under: Appreciation, Commitment, Good News About Marriage, Good News About Marriage Book, Love, Marriage, The Good News About Marriage, Time

Marriage Monday: Taking Care of Yourself Says "I Care About You"

August 29, 2014 by Shaunti Feldhahn Leave a Comment

Marriage Tip: 
Recognize that taking care of yourself says “I care about you” to your spouse; it isn’t about looking like you walked off a magazine cover, but about your spouse seeing you are willing to make the effort to take care of yourself for them. Most of us are not the size we were […]

Filed Under: Appreciation, Commitment, For Women Only, For Women Only book, Love, Marriage, Time

Marriage Monday: Mutually Reconnect With Your Spouse After Conflict

August 22, 2014 by Shaunti Feldhahn Leave a Comment

Tip #26: When you and your mate experience hurt feelings and conflict, mutually reconnect by sharing a private signal that says “We’re okay.” When it comes to marriage, it turns out that how you end a fight is just as important as whether you avoid one. Because in any marital union – just like any […]

Filed Under: Appreciation, Commitment, Love, Marriage, Surprising Secrets, Surprising Secrets book, Time

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