Yet Again: Don’t Believe the Doomsday Headlines about the Church

Yet Again: Don’t Believe the Doomsday Headlines about the Church

“In U.S., Decline of Christianity Continues at Rapid Pace.” That was the headline of an October 2019 Pew Research Center article. One guaranteed to discourage every pastor and every Christian in America. It is also entirely misleading.    Just to set the record straight: More than one-third of American Christians consider themselves “strongly affiliated” with their…

Four things I would tell the woman who called me a “dumb broad”

Four things I would tell the woman who called me a “dumb broad”

Dear sister,   You say in your angry Amazon review of For Women Only and For Men Only, that a therapist recommended the books to help your failing marriage. Yet the For Women Only research has, in your view, made things worse by pointing out why your husband isn’t happy. (And presumably, why you aren’t,…

In marriage, realize the need to understand men’s deep vulnerability

In marriage, realize the need to understand men’s deep vulnerability

A women’s ministry leader once told me, “With a woman, if something is unsettled in her marriage or dating relationship, it’s like nothing is right with the world until that is resolved.” So true! Whether it is a single woman who is wondering why her latest date won’t call her back or a woman married…

A Zero-Divorce Pre-Marital Program: A great case study for churches and couples

A Zero-Divorce Pre-Marital Program: A great case study for churches and couples

A Zero-Divorce Pre-Marital Program: A great case study for churches and couples A few months back, Jeff and I came across a highly successful model of pre-marital preparation at a church in a small town in Michigan; after seventeen years, among couples who were getting married for the first time, not one had since gotten…