Tip #33: Wives, see his anger as a legitimate signal of pain – and address it with respect Every relationship – even the happiest ones! – will have moments of conflict. And how we deal with that conflict can make the relationship stronger…. or really hurt it. Ladies, one of the clearest examples of this is…
I got a great surprise a couple of weeks ago, just days before Jeff and I celebrated our 20th anniversary – yes, 20th, woohoo!! We got a contact through our website that was so out of the blue, my assistant actually thought it might be spam! A woman who was an assistant at a small…
“An Open Letter from Shaunti Feldhahn in response to the Focus on the Family Singapore school program controversy” To the leaders of Focus on the Family Singapore: I have seen the news reports about the current questions and concerns raised by a student about the FOTF program taught in schools. It appears that some significant…
Tip #32: Husbands, get in the habit of telling your wife she is beautiful. Every little girl dreams of finding her prince and knowing she is his princess. Husbands, you need to know that even after years of marriage, your wife probably still has some of that little girl inside. A little girl who wants to…
Dear Shaunti, I’ve been dating a wonderful man for two years and he wants to get married, but I’ve been a single mom for almost eight years – and I just can’t get past the fact that 60 percent (or more) of second marriages don’t make it. Should I even get married again, and if…
Tip #31: Wives, have realistic expectations and share them with your husband Happy spouses help create happy marriages! Makes sense right? And it turns out that one of the things that will keep you happy – and thus your marriage happy – is avoiding a situation where you are likely to experience unmet expectations. Let me give…
