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  • When You’re Disappointed By Your Spouse Shaunti Feldhahn
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    How Do I Respect Him When He Doesn’t Love Me?

    ByEileen Kirkland February 9, 2013July 19, 2018

    How do I respect him when he doesn’t love me? By Jackie Coleman Monterey, California, Tuesday evening, 6:30 p.m. · Tires screech into the driveway, and the garage door slams shut. He throws his briefcase into the corner of the kitchen, lets out an abbreviated grunt when you ask him how his day was, then…

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  • How Can I Get My Wife to Understand How Important Sex is to Me?
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    How Can I Get My Wife to Understand How Important Sex is to Me?

    ByEileen Kirkland February 6, 2013October 24, 2017

    How can I get my wife to understand how important sex is to me? by Jackie Coleman Let’s look at the options: 1. Being romantic just to get sex will be seen as manipulative. 2. Hinting at your desires will most likely push her further away. 3. Not doing anything about it will make you…

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  • Financial vs. Emotional Security
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    Financial vs. Emotional Security

    ByEileen Kirkland February 5, 2013August 15, 2018

    Would my wife really choose to give up financial benefits for me to be home more?  By Jackie Coleman You’re slaving away at work, even picking up a few extra hours so the family vacation will be covered. Drained, exhausted, and frustrated from the day, you come home to your family—the people you are really…

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  • Fighting Back with Love
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    Fighting Back with Love

    ByEileen Kirkland February 4, 2013

    Women often unintentionally push their man away when she’s hurt and upset about something to see if he really loves her enough to pursue her.  We can be prickly and unloving when we feel insecure or hurt.  But usually what we need in that moment when we are the most difficult to love, is a…

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  • Behind Superman
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    Behind Superman

    ByEileen Kirkland February 3, 2013

    No matter how confident a guy seems on the outside, he is hiding a lot of self-doubt on the inside.

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  • Strangers Among Us
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    Strangers Among Us

    ByEileen Kirkland February 3, 2013

      Overall: after being married for 10+ years we are total strangers to each other and thinking about packing it in. Any advice?  By Jackie Coleman Instant news updates, instant popcorn, instant messaging…instant gratification. Our businesses revolve around efficiency and speedy results. Our grocery stores are filled with foods of convenience. Our technology allows us…

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Dreaming is really a way of saying, "I want to spe Dreaming is really a way of saying, "I want to spend the rest of my life with you." It tells your spouse that he's/she's still the one – and will always be the one. Ask your spouse dreaming questions.

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The strongest marriages aren't built by rowing har The strongest marriages aren't built by rowing harder. They're built by rowing together.

For more than two decades, we've spent our lives researching what helps relationships thrive.

Through our books, conferences, and events, we've had the privilege of sharing what we've learned with millions of people.
But one question kept nagging at us:

Why do so many couples learn the most important lessons about marriage only after they're already struggling?

What if they could learn them before the wedding?

That's why we're launching Start Strong—a live premarital coaching experience where we'll personally guide small groups of engaged couples through four live 90-minute sessions, sharing the research, practical tools, and lessons we've gathered over the past 20+ years—and answering your questions along the way.

Because great marriages rarely happen by accident.

They are built intentionally.

If you're engaged—or know someone who is—we'd love to have you join us.

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Our men want to be good dads. They want to jump in Our men want to be good dads. They want to jump in – but they might hold back out of insecurity or uncertainty. Thankfully, most of the studies over the decades have found that when we women encourage our men and "allow" them to do their thing, they are more likely to jump in.

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Research shows that taking small steps in a specif Research shows that taking small steps in a specific direction over a longer time frame works. Doable, repetitive actions may seem too minor to matter, but they are much more likely to result in the actual changes we seek.

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And because we don't talk about it, we have no gri And because we don't talk about it, we have no grid for what else is going on out there – other than what we see on TV, which often does not match our experience! This is one of the most important issues in marriage, and it is also the one in which we can feel the most frustrated and alone.

Secrets of Sex & Marriage can help begin the conversation. 

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In my research on the 30-Day Kindness Challenge, n In my research on the 30-Day Kindness Challenge, no matter who did the Challenge or who their target person was, as long they practiced those 3 habits, 89% saw improvement in their relationships.

Join the Kindness Challenge today!

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Transitioning from parenting to coaching is crucia Transitioning from parenting to coaching is crucial when our kids leave the nest. But let's not forget to listen to their perspectives too. Discover the action steps our adult kids want us to know in my latest blog post.

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Are you curious about what your adult kids truly n Are you curious about what your adult kids truly need from you as a parent? Gain valuable insights from their own perspectives in my latest blog post. Don't miss the four action steps that emerged from our research and survey of young adults.

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