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  • Want to Fix Your Wife’s Problem? Step 1: Listen. Step 2: Repeat.
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    Want to Fix Your Wife’s Problem? Step 1: Listen. Step 2: Repeat.

    ByShaunti Feldhahn January 28, 2014October 18, 2021

    Dear Shaunti, My girlfriend tells me all the time that “I don’t want you to fix it; I just want you to listen!” But that’s after I’ve been listening for 10 minutes! Seriously? –Confused Dear Confused, That’s what my husband thought too! Jeff thought “listening” meant to just let me talk about whatever was on…

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  • Highly Happy Marriages Secret #4: Pay It Forward – The Importance of Keeping Score
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    Highly Happy Marriages Secret #4: Pay It Forward – The Importance of Keeping Score

    ByShaunti Feldhahn January 28, 2014November 15, 2019

    Author note: This is one of a series giving a sneak peek into what I discovered about what makes happy marriages so happy!  After years of nationally-representative research with more than 1,000 couples, I reveal the twelve most important little habits in The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Marriages: The Little Things That Make a…

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  • 2 Ways Flex-Time Moms Can Prevent Resentment from Male Co-Workers
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    2 Ways Flex-Time Moms Can Prevent Resentment from Male Co-Workers

    ByShaunti Feldhahn January 28, 2014

    Dear Shaunti,  I work full-time, have 3 small children and work a flex schedule. This works really well for my family but my male co-workers get frustrated when they can’t reach me during traditional office hours. I’m getting all my work done but I’m worried they’re not viewing me as an equal colleague because they…

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  • Highly Happy Marriage Secret #3:  Go Ahead, Sleep On It
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    Highly Happy Marriage Secret #3: Go Ahead, Sleep On It

    ByShaunti Feldhahn January 21, 2014

    Author note: This is one of a series giving a sneak peek into what I discovered about what makes happy marriages so happy!  After years of nationally-representative research with more than 1,000 couples, I reveal the twelve most important little habits in The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Marriages: The Little Things That Make a…

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  • Highly Happy Marriages Secret #2:  Believe the Best
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    Highly Happy Marriages Secret #2: Believe the Best

    ByShaunti Feldhahn January 14, 2014

    Author note: This is one of a series giving a sneak peek into what I discovered about what makes happy marriages so happy!  After years of nationally-representative research with more than 1,000 couples, I reveal the twelve most important little habits in The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Marriages: The Little Things That Make a…

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  • Happy New Year, New You, New Marriage!
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    Happy New Year, New You, New Marriage!

    ByShaunti Feldhahn January 2, 2014

    Well, not a NEW marriage, exactly, but a completely refreshed and delightful one! As the best New Years’ announcement EVER, I am absolutely thrilled to tell you that my new book The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Marriages is now on shelves!    For me, this is like a new baby… except with a three year…

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Friends, in the end, if we decide to trust God wit Friends, in the end, if we decide to trust God with our seasons of life, we'll see how trustworthy He is. He's been with us before and He'll be with us again. Our best bet is to focus on what God wants us to do now and embrace the beauty of our current season.
If we want to create a great relationship, we have If we want to create a great relationship, we have to recognize that what is second-nature to us isn't always second-nature to our spouse! Just as important, what they need probably doesn't come naturally to us, either. This week's blog post gives you 4 steps that will help you both connect on what is most crucial.

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In nearly 8 out of 10 highly happy marriages, each In nearly 8 out of 10 highly happy marriages, each spouse gives credit to their mate!

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Feeling weighed down and not sure why? You might Feeling weighed down and not sure why?

You might be holding onto more than you realize…

In Emotional Hoarding, my friend, Laurie Davies shares how letting go of worry, regret, and shame can lead to the freedom God has for you.

If you've been feeling stuck, this is for you

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I recently came across a conversation that really I recently came across a conversation that really made me pause and I wanted to share it because I think so many people can relate.
A young man shared that he'd been dating an amazing woman for over a year and a half and saw a future with her… but hadn't talked to her about it yet. Why? Because he wanted to wait until he felt more financially secure.

It got me thinking about how often we believe we're protecting someone's heart by waiting, when in reality, the lack of clarity can create more uncertainty than reassurance.

In this blog, I dive into what truly gives a woman a sense of security in a relationship—and why it's often not what we assume.
If you're dating, engaged, or even just thinking about the future, this is definitely worth a read.

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Dating and Waiting—What Really Gives your Girlfriend a Sense of Security (part 2) https://shaunti.com/2026/04/dating-and-waiting-what-really-gives-your-girlfriend-a-sense-of-security-part-2/
"Why is this taking so long?" If you've ever aske "Why is this taking so long?"

If you've ever asked that in a relationship… you're not alone.

Waiting for clarity can feel frustrating—especially when you know what you want.

But sometimes the deeper question isn't just what is he doing?
It's…can I trust him in the process?

Because how you handle this season doesn't just affect today—
it shapes the kind of relationship you'll have later.

If this hit home, I go deeper into this in my latest article

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Dating and Waiting—What Every Dating Woman Needs to Know About Men (part 1) https://shaunti.com/2026/04/dating-and-waiting-what-every-dating-woman-needs-to-know-about-men-part-1/
In this episode, Laurie Davies shares how emotiona In this episode, Laurie Davies shares how emotional hoarding can disconnect us from the peace and freedom God wants for us and how to finally let go.

If you've been feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or weighed down… this conversation is for you.

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And don't forget, we're giving away 3 copies of Emotional Hoarding
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👇 What's one thing you're ready to let go of?

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GIVEAWAY: Win 1 of 3 copies of Emotional Hoarding GIVEAWAY: Win 1 of 3 copies of Emotional Hoarding 

My friend and recent podcast guest, Laurie Davies, is giving away 3 copies of her powerful new book, "Emotional Hoarding" and I'm so excited to share this with you.

We're giving away 3 FREE copies!
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Winners announced: 4/6/26

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