
Introduction
Welcome to the Understanding Him.
Additional Resources:
- Download the course workbook PDF here, or under Downloads (located to the right if you’re on a PC or a tablet, and below if you’re on mobile).
- Download the audio file of any section, also listed under Downloads (located to the right if you’re on a PC or a tablet, and below if you’re on mobile).
Download the Course Extras
Click or tap the image below to download the ZIP file to your device. The course audio files can be found alongside each module and video throughout the course.

Or, if you are on a mobile device, download the files separately by tapping on the links below.
- Understanding Him Workbook (PDF — UPDATED 6/23, electronically fillable version)
- Understanding Him Jump Start Journal (PDF)
- Understanding Him Commitment Printable (PDF)
- Understanding Him Commitment Reminder Cards Printable (PDF)
- Understanding Him as a Dad eBook (PDF)
- Crisis and Couples eBook (PDF)
To view and print these files, you will need Adobe Reader or a compatible program. Get Adobe Acrobat Reader here.
Mobile Access for This Course
If you’d like to access the course content on a smartphone, download the Kajabi app from your phone’s app store using the links below, then log in with the same account information you used when you purchase the course.



Shaunti received her graduate degree from Harvard University and was an analyst on Wall Street before unexpectedly becoming a social researcher, best-selling author and popular speaker. Today, she applies her analytical skills to investigating eye-opening, life-changing truths about relationships, both at home and in the workplace.
Shaunti’s books (including several with husband, Jeff) are known for their aha moments and relationship transformations! These groundbreaking research-based books, including For Women Only, The Kindness Challenge, and most recently, Thriving in Love & Money have sold more than 3 million copies in 25 languages and are widely read in homes, counseling centers and corporations worldwide.
Shaunti’s The 30-Day Kindness Challenge has been completed by thousands of individuals. It has been led by numerous churches and other prominent organizations and civic groups and continues to transform relationships in just 30 days through kindness.
Shaunti’s findings are regularly featured in media as diverse as The Today Show, Family Life, Focus on the Family, The New York Times and Cosmo. Shaunti speaks at both live and virtual events in the U.S. and around the world. She and her husband Jeff live in Atlanta with their daughter, son, and two cats who think they are dogs.
Module 1: Include His Differences
Welcome to the Understanding Him.
Additional Resources:
- Download the course workbook PDF here, or under Downloads (located to the right if you’re on a PC or a tablet, and below if you’re on mobile).
- Download the audio file of any section, also listed under Downloads (located to the right if you’re on a PC or a tablet, and below if you’re on mobile).
Download the Course Extras
Click or tap the image below to download the ZIP file to your device. The course audio files can be found alongside each module and video throughout the course.

Or, if you are on a mobile device, download the files separately by tapping on the links below.
- Understanding Him Workbook (PDF — UPDATED 6/23, electronically fillable version)
- Understanding Him Jump Start Journal (PDF)
- Understanding Him Commitment Printable (PDF)
- Understanding Him Commitment Reminder Cards Printable (PDF)
- Understanding Him as a Dad eBook (PDF)
- Crisis and Couples eBook (PDF)
To view and print these files, you will need Adobe Reader or a compatible program. Get Adobe Acrobat Reader here.
Mobile Access for This Course
If you’d like to access the course content on a smartphone, download the Kajabi app from your phone’s app store using the links below, then log in with the same account information you used when you purchase the course.


Shaunti received her graduate degree from Harvard University and was an analyst on Wall Street before unexpectedly becoming a social researcher, best-selling author and popular speaker. Today, she applies her analytical skills to investigating eye-opening, life-changing truths about relationships, both at home and in the workplace.
Shaunti’s books (including several with husband, Jeff) are known for their aha moments and relationship transformations! These groundbreaking research-based books, including For Women Only, The Kindness Challenge, and most recently, Thriving in Love & Money have sold more than 3 million copies in 25 languages and are widely read in homes, counseling centers and corporations worldwide.
Shaunti’s The 30-Day Kindness Challenge has been completed by thousands of individuals. It has been led by numerous churches and other prominent organizations and civic groups and continues to transform relationships in just 30 days through kindness.
Shaunti’s findings are regularly featured in media as diverse as The Today Show, Family Life, Focus on the Family, The New York Times and Cosmo. Shaunti speaks at both live and virtual events in the U.S. and around the world. She and her husband Jeff live in Atlanta with their daughter, son, and two cats who think they are dogs.
Welcome to the Understanding Him.
Additional Resources:
- Download the course workbook PDF here, or under Downloads (located to the right if you’re on a PC or a tablet, and below if you’re on mobile).
- Download the audio file of any section, also listed under Downloads (located to the right if you’re on a PC or a tablet, and below if you’re on mobile).
Welcome to the Understanding Him.
Additional Resources:
- Download the course workbook PDF here, or under Downloads (located to the right if you’re on a PC or a tablet, and below if you’re on mobile).
- Download the audio file of any section, also listed under Downloads (located to the right if you’re on a PC or a tablet, and below if you’re on mobile).
Welcome to the Understanding Him.
Additional Resources:
- Download the course workbook PDF here, or under Downloads (located to the right if you’re on a PC or a tablet, and below if you’re on mobile).
- Download the audio file of any section, also listed under Downloads (located to the right if you’re on a PC or a tablet, and below if you’re on mobile).
Welcome to the Understanding Him.
Additional Resources:
- Download the course workbook PDF here, or under Downloads (located to the right if you’re on a PC or a tablet, and below if you’re on mobile).
- Download the audio file of any section, also listed under Downloads (located to the right if you’re on a PC or a tablet, and below if you’re on mobile).
Module 2: Nurture His Vulnerability
Welcome to the Understanding Him.
Additional Resources:
- Download the course workbook PDF here, or under Downloads (located to the right if you’re on a PC or a tablet, and below if you’re on mobile).
- Download the audio file of any section, also listed under Downloads (located to the right if you’re on a PC or a tablet, and below if you’re on mobile).
Download the Course Extras
Click or tap the image below to download the ZIP file to your device. The course audio files can be found alongside each module and video throughout the course.

Or, if you are on a mobile device, download the files separately by tapping on the links below.
- Understanding Him Workbook (PDF — UPDATED 6/23, electronically fillable version)
- Understanding Him Jump Start Journal (PDF)
- Understanding Him Commitment Printable (PDF)
- Understanding Him Commitment Reminder Cards Printable (PDF)
- Understanding Him as a Dad eBook (PDF)
- Crisis and Couples eBook (PDF)
To view and print these files, you will need Adobe Reader or a compatible program. Get Adobe Acrobat Reader here.
Mobile Access for This Course
If you’d like to access the course content on a smartphone, download the Kajabi app from your phone’s app store using the links below, then log in with the same account information you used when you purchase the course.


Shaunti received her graduate degree from Harvard University and was an analyst on Wall Street before unexpectedly becoming a social researcher, best-selling author and popular speaker. Today, she applies her analytical skills to investigating eye-opening, life-changing truths about relationships, both at home and in the workplace.
Shaunti’s books (including several with husband, Jeff) are known for their aha moments and relationship transformations! These groundbreaking research-based books, including For Women Only, The Kindness Challenge, and most recently, Thriving in Love & Money have sold more than 3 million copies in 25 languages and are widely read in homes, counseling centers and corporations worldwide.
Shaunti’s The 30-Day Kindness Challenge has been completed by thousands of individuals. It has been led by numerous churches and other prominent organizations and civic groups and continues to transform relationships in just 30 days through kindness.
Shaunti’s findings are regularly featured in media as diverse as The Today Show, Family Life, Focus on the Family, The New York Times and Cosmo. Shaunti speaks at both live and virtual events in the U.S. and around the world. She and her husband Jeff live in Atlanta with their daughter, son, and two cats who think they are dogs.
Welcome to the Understanding Him.
Additional Resources:
- Download the course workbook PDF here, or under Downloads (located to the right if you’re on a PC or a tablet, and below if you’re on mobile).
- Download the audio file of any section, also listed under Downloads (located to the right if you’re on a PC or a tablet, and below if you’re on mobile).
Welcome to the Understanding Him.
Additional Resources:
- Download the course workbook PDF here, or under Downloads (located to the right if you’re on a PC or a tablet, and below if you’re on mobile).
- Download the audio file of any section, also listed under Downloads (located to the right if you’re on a PC or a tablet, and below if you’re on mobile).
Welcome to the Understanding Him.
Additional Resources:
- Download the course workbook PDF here, or under Downloads (located to the right if you’re on a PC or a tablet, and below if you’re on mobile).
- Download the audio file of any section, also listed under Downloads (located to the right if you’re on a PC or a tablet, and below if you’re on mobile).
Welcome to the Understanding Him.
Additional Resources:
- Download the course workbook PDF here, or under Downloads (located to the right if you’re on a PC or a tablet, and below if you’re on mobile).
- Download the audio file of any section, also listed under Downloads (located to the right if you’re on a PC or a tablet, and below if you’re on mobile).
Welcome to the Understanding Him.
Additional Resources:
- Download the course workbook PDF here, or under Downloads (located to the right if you’re on a PC or a tablet, and below if you’re on mobile).
- Download the audio file of any section, also listed under Downloads (located to the right if you’re on a PC or a tablet, and below if you’re on mobile).
Welcome to the Understanding Him.
Additional Resources:
- Download the course workbook PDF here, or under Downloads (located to the right if you’re on a PC or a tablet, and below if you’re on mobile).
- Download the audio file of any section, also listed under Downloads (located to the right if you’re on a PC or a tablet, and below if you’re on mobile).