When Knee-Jerk Reactions Cause Money Tension In Marriage
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When Knee-Jerk Reactions Cause Money Tension In Marriage

ByShaunti Feldhahn

Although everyone reacts in different ways, at some point we all have a negative response to something around money—especially what our spouse does with money! In doing research for our book Thriving in Love and Money, my husband Jeff and I found that these knee-jerk reactions often trace back to a few faulty patterns of thought. But if we can learn to recognize and catch those wrong assumptions, we can retrain our thinking and dramatically change our interactions with our spouse.

Announcing a New Resource for Thriving in Love and Money
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Announcing a New Resource for Thriving in Love and Money

ByShaunti Feldhahn

If you or your church are pondering whether to do a money management course in January (such as a Dave Ramsey or Crown Financial class), I want to propose a completely new idea for you: We’ve been doing money management programs in the wrong order! Nearly every such program starts with teaching and encouraging the…

Why Does What I Buy Make My Husband So Upset?
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Why Does What I Buy Make My Husband So Upset?

ByShaunti Feldhahn

Current circumstances have definitely made shopping a little more complicated. If it’s not with masks and social distancing, it’s online shopping for everything from groceries to mattresses to everything in between! (Sooooo many boxes being delivered, am I right?) But what might have stayed exactly the same is the negative reaction you get from your…

Financial Friction? Money Strategies that Will Help Your Marriage

Financial Friction? Money Strategies that Will Help Your Marriage

ByShaunti Feldhahn

It’s no secret that money can cause friction in marriage. In fact, many husbands and wives essentially manage finances separately, just to avoid that friction! And while doing that can be tempting (and I mean really tempting!), our Thriving in Love & Money research shows that handling money independently breaks the very trust that binds us…

Happy Independence Day? Surprising ways to more intimacy (Part 2 of The Unity Series)

Happy Independence Day? Surprising ways to more intimacy (Part 2 of The Unity Series)

ByShaunti Feldhahn

Happy Independence Day week!  Independence works well for nations in many ways, but can cause issues in marriage. And we’ve sadly seen in our own nation how easy it is for the United States of America to splinter when the parties within it become their own independent factions instead of fighting for that unity. So…

Happy Independence Day? Surprising ways to more intimacy (Part 1 of The Unity Series)

Happy Independence Day? Surprising ways to more intimacy (Part 1 of The Unity Series)

ByShaunti Feldhahn

In a few days, Americans will celebrate the Fourth of July. With fireworks, flags, and a whole lot of barbecue, we will cheerfully commemorate our country’s heritage– our independence. What we may not realize is just how much this basic American value has shaped our relationships. Independence can be a valuable attribute in many contexts…