Dear Shaunti,  I’m a pastor who works with young couples. As you know, most people live together before they get married and I can’t figure out how to talk to them about it. I know from scripture that it’s a bad idea, but couples always ask “But why?” To them, it just seems logical…
Ladies, if there were a reality TV show like “What NOT to Wear,” but for relationships, these three things would be at the top of the list for “What NOT to say to your man.”  Now, don’t get me wrong; I’ve actually said all these things at one point!  You’ve probably said them, too.    And…
Well, Jeff and are back in one of our favorite places to come speak, with the wonderful people of Hawaii.  We are so honored to be part of the Waterhouse Lecture Series, doing a marriage conference this weekend in Waikiki, then a date night at Cornerstone Fellowship in Mililani, and then Sunday with Waialae Baptist in…
Men, finish this sentence.  Your wife is upset and says “I don’t want you to fix it, I just want you to ____.” Most of you have heard that… and most of you are confused because you think you are listening!  So, guys, from our research about women here are 3 simple tips to clear…
People always send me memes about the differences between men and women. Â Some of them are too raunchy to post, but this one was (fairly) tame and made me laugh out loud. Â Mostly because A) it fits so well with my research but also B) because I see myself and Jeff in so many of…
Guys, I know from the For Men Only research that you want to make your wife happy.  And in many ways you already do!  But if you want to hit the happiness jackpot, here are the four phrases that (in roughly 80% of cases) will put you into hero category: 1. “Here, let me do that…”…
