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Top Marriage Advice for Newlyweds (and Everyone Else) About Making a Happy Marriage
Newlywed? Engaged? Read the research-based habits for a happy marriage!
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Laugh and Learn
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Speaking Descriptions
Speaking Topics for Marriage Events with Shaunti Feldhahn
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3 Great Ways to Handle Drama
The man behind me at the grocery checkout was on his phone with his daughter—and…
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In Troubled Times, Remember How the Story Ends
Early this year, you may have seen the meme that says, “Before I agree to…
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Keep Holding On . . . God Can Use Our Weaknesses
Let’s anticipate the ways God will use these times to help us grow stronger in…
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We Are All Important to God’s Plan
I’ve always been intrigued by Rube Goldberg machines—watching a complex series of items working together…
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Announcing Let’s Find Joy
I have some exciting news to share and it’s just in time for Christmas! But…
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The Surprising Trick to Creating a Positive Cycle with Your Spouse
Some surprising research has found that positive emotional responses toward our spouse may have much…
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Little Things Make A Big Difference in Marriage
When you’re working with couples on a regular basis, you probably wish you could do…
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I Am Relearning How To Find Rest—And I Need Your Story
Three years ago, I started a new season—writing not only research-based relationship books, but women’s…
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Make Your Marriage Happier By Keeping Score And Giving Back
The highly happy couples I interviewed taught me that the best marriages actually do keep…
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Help Make Your Marriage Great By Being Grateful For Your Spouse
Have you ever been around one of those couples who just never seem to have…
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Here’s How To Be Romantic All Year, Not Just On Valentine’s Day
My encouragement and challenge to all of us: resolve to celebrate the spirit of Valentine’s…
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When You Exchange Gifts, Watch Out For This Conflict
When you make the effort to understand and honor your spouse’s unique perspective and values…
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This Is What Makes Your Man Vulnerable—Be Aware And Take Care!
An iceberg is typically 90% below the surface, with only 10% visible. Does your man…
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What Happens When God Interrupts Us In The Midst Of Our Stress?
We’re heading into that crazy busy time of year known as the holiday season. And…
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This One Thing Makes a Huge Difference for Your Teen
Parents, I have some encouraging news for you. Although we’re all suffering from just a…
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Part 4 — Your Husband Just Lost His Job: How to Respond
As we venture through this time of uncertainty, I hope this series has been helpful.…
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Part 3: Your Husband Just Lost His Job: How to Respond
In Part 1 we shared the surprising (shocking!) emotional factor at work inside most men…
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Part 2: Your Husband Just Lost His Job: How to Respond
We are facing the greatest time of economic uncertainty in almost 100 years. Our world…
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Financial Friction? Money Strategies that Will Help Your Marriage
It’s no secret that money can cause friction in marriage. In fact, many husbands and…
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Happy Independence Day? Surprising ways to more intimacy (Part 2 of The Unity Series)
Happy Independence Day week! Independence works well for nations in many ways, but can cause…
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Happy Independence Day? Surprising ways to more intimacy (Part 1 of The Unity Series)
In a few days, Americans will celebrate the Fourth of July. With fireworks, flags, and…
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Pastoral Interviews
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The Emerge Stronger Series: Learn About Yourself and Your Spouse to Navigate Money Well
This is the 5th and final part of a series that looks at the research-based…
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The Emerge Stronger Series: Come Together Around Money (It’s Easier Than You Think!)
This is Part 4 of a series that looks at the research-based solutions to navigating…
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The Emerge Stronger Series: Get Emotionally Close While Being Physically Close
This is Part 3 of a series that looks at the research-based solutions to navigating…
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The Emerge Stronger Series: Kindness Wins
This is Part 2 of a series that looks at the research-based solutions to navigating…
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4 Ways to Make Your Child’s Day
Believe it or not, the answer is not announcing, “A free day off school!” (Although…
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Join the Launch Team for my new book!
Hi friends! I am thrilled to announce that our next book is about to be…
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Let Your Husband Delight in Seeing You in All Your Glory
We recently posted an article offering guidance to men who feel frustrated because their wife…
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Is Your Wife Shy About Letting You See Her Body? Try This!
I recently heard from a man who was feeling frustrated because his wife is so…
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Yet Again: Don’t Believe the Doomsday Headlines about the Church
“In U.S., Decline of Christianity Continues at Rapid Pace.” That was the headline of an…
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Tips For Talking to Your Teen About Schedule Overload
The new school year is in full swing (wait, didn’t we just take those “first…
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Does Your Wife Think Your Marriage Has Lost its Spark? Here’s How to Respond
After getting their youngest child settled in at college for her freshman year, Phil began…
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A Big Picture Update From Shaunti — Two New Books Are On the Way!
Hi friends! I wanted to give you an update on what’s been going on lately.…
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How to Encourage Your Teen to Talk to You More
Summer is over and school is back in session! (Although here in the South, we’re…
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How to Avoid Painful Political Discussions with Your Spouse
The most recent political campaign really did a number on civil political conversation—among friends, Facebook…
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Parenting Teens with Love and Logic: Preparing Adolescents for Responsible Adulthood by Foster Cline, MD and Jim Fay
Parents need help to teach their teens how to make decisions responsibly—and do so without…
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Why Your Wife Wants to Text You All Day
Recently, a man at one of my conferences spoke up about a marital issue that…
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A Big Announcement From Shaunti!
Hey everybody! I want to announce something very exciting that we have been working on…
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In the Wake of the Recent College Cheating Scandal
Unless you’ve been holed up under a rock (I’m in “Cave Mode” while writing a…
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The Two Words Your Husband Really Needs to Hear: Thank You
After another heated argument, Josh and Hannah came back together with calmer attitudes to sort…
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Make His Day By Doing This In the Bedroom
What would you say if I told you that you could do one thing tonight…
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Help Your Teen Avoid Social Media Comparison
Erica’s teenage daughter took out her phone for her daily ritual—taking photos of her outfit…
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The Best Parenting Advice I Ever Received
We recently celebrated our son’s 16th birthday. Trust me, Jeff and I spent more than…
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4 Secrets That Will Kill Your Relationship (Or Your Business)
Unless you’re in counterterrorism, nothing good comes from keeping secrets from those you care about.…
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Does Your Wife Worry How You’ll React When She Shares?
I know what it’s like to take a daughter to college, and it’s not easy.…
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Support Your Husband in His Battle Against Visual Temptation
It seems like we’re being bombarded on a daily basis with suggestive images everywhere we…