
Shaunti & Jeff: I Wish You Could Hear This
What if the most life-changing insights were the ones nobody else could hear? That’s exactly why Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn—renowned social researchers and bestselling authors—launched I Wish You Could Hear This. After two decades of digging deep into the real stories, struggles, and breakthroughs of people from all walks of life, they realized: there’s so much gold in the raw conversations and behind-the-scenes discoveries that never make it into a book or talk.
This podcast opens the door to those moments. Whether it’s uncovering the hidden dynamics in marriage, making sense of emotional disconnects, or grappling with faith and family challenges, Shaunti and Jeff bring warmth, clarity, and research-backed wisdom to the questions we all wrestle with. Plus, they invite guests—from counselors to everyday heroes—to help unpack what’s really going on beneath the surface.
Welcome to a place of empathy, “aha” moments, and deeper connection. Because sometimes, the things we wish others could hear…are exactly what we need most.

Latest Episodes NOW on LifeAudio
- Summary: In this inspiring and down-to-earth episode, Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn sit down with Tony […]
- Summary: In this conversation, Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn explore the complexities of anger, challenging the […]
- Summary: In this engaging podcast episode, Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn welcome Jonathan and Wendy Hoover […]
- Summary: In this podcast episode, Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn explore the complexities of communication and conflict […]
- Summary: In this conversation, Jeff and Shaunti with guest Nate Graybill discuss the pressing mental health crisis and the vital role […]
- Summary: In this conversation, Shaunti, Jeff, and Chris Legg explore the common reasons couples find […]
- Summary: In this conversation, Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn, with guests Pastor Des Wadsworth, and Lenny […]
- Summary: In this conversation, Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn discuss the concept of the mental load […]
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Experience the insightful, thought-provoking wisdom of Shaunti in these select podcasts she’s been featured in below.
Married with Benefits
Podcast
“Why does HE do that?” “Why does SHE do that?”
“What are the secrets to a happy marriage? To a great intimate life?”
Get the answers on Family Life’s Married With Benefits podcast series!
Married With Benefits dares to ask the questions we know you’re thinking, but just aren’t sure who to ask.
Shaunti Feldhahn teams up with Family Life’s Brian Goins for four great seasons, based on the research in Shaunti’s books.
In seasons one and two they discuss your nagging questions so you can find out what your spouse is truly thinking—and transform your friction points into fun.
In season three they are joined by sex therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma to discuss research about drive, initiative, and other questions that everyone wants to know the answers to.
And in season four Shaunti and Brian share how to achieve a happy marriage. Whether you’d currently describe your marriage as hostile, highly happy, or somewhere in between, you’ll find empathy and practical insights on how to take steps towards the persistently happy marriage you long for!
Check out this podcast hosted by Shaunti and Family Life’s Brian Goins and find out the answers!
Latest Episodes
- Whether you’ve noticed friends struggling or you want to share the change you’ve seen in […]
- There isn’t just one way to disciple our kids. In fact, there are several ways […]
- Sometimes when I hear the word “worship,” I picture a Sunday morning service—the praise team […]
- “Will you forgive me?” A phrase that is included at the end of almost all […]
- When the world feels unsafe and tragedy feels close to home, how do I help […]
- Motherhood: part Indiana Jones, part lullaby, part Call of Duty, part Magic Kingdom, part dumpster […]
- When most of communication becomes functional (schedules, what needs to done, fixed, etc.), connection takes […]
- Discipline ranks right up there with other fun parts of adulting. Like flossing. Or paying […]

