If you have ever wished you could get your spouse to understand and appreciate how YOU want to handle money, now’s your chance. If you want to stop feeling embarrassed by your instinctive money habits or annoyed by your spouse’s, you need this message! This session has NOTHING to do with budgeting or getting out of debt. We have no idea how to help you pick the best investments. What we do have, after three years of rigorous national research, is the knowledge of WHY you and your spouse feel the way you do – and how to address it in a way that stops the M-word madness and brings the two of you together! Only 8% of people don’t have tension, irritation, stress, or avoidance around money. This session is for the other 92%.

Did you know that there is ONE thing holding most of us back from the truly abundant life and relationships we are longing for? After years of research, Shaunti has identified three simple actions that change everything! This energetic, hilarious, convicting, and ultra-practical talk gives every listener three simple, do-able, actions that will lead to life change. For them—and for everyone around them! Kindness is a superpower—it can transform any relationship! It will transform YOU!

Did you know that there are buried secrets inside the men in your life (husband or boyfriend, son, etc.)?  Things that matter so much to him, but he doesn’t know how to explain?  In this session, Shaunti Feldhahn shares the results of interviews and surveys with thousands of men from her bestseller, For Women Only, and shows you what he is really thinking, and the little changes that can have a big impact in the great relationship you are both want.

Yes, you can understand a woman and make her happy!  In this session Shaunti Feldhahn shares more than ten years of research from her bestseller, For Men Only, on how women think, how you really can understand the women in your life (wife or girlfriend, daughters, etc.) and the simple “to do’s” that consistently have a big impact.  

From stay-at-home moms to globe-trotting executives, young singles to seniors, every modern woman has wondered, "How on earth do I juggle it all?"  Shaunti Feldhahn certainly did!  A best-selling author, researcher and speaker, as well as a mom and wife to her husband Jeff, she was wearing herself out, driving carpool, chaperoning field trips, and regularly rushing to the airport.   She, too, wondered how to balance life.  It turns out, there is a biblical answer to that question -- and one that is wonderfully unique for every wonderfully unique woman!  Based on her book The Life Ready Woman and Find Balance Bible Study, Shaunti will help you discover your individual blueprint that God has provided for each of us. A blueprint design that offers a life of balance, peace, delight and joy instead of the often stressed, torn, am-I-doing-enough life that we often experience today.

Raise your hand if you want a happy, peaceful, fun relationship that you enjoy every day.  Yeah?  Me, too?  Yet sometimes we land in confusion, conflict and heartache instead.  But it doesn’t have to be that way.  It turns out: it is not only possible to create a great marriage, it is likely!  Even if only one spouse is working on it.  Yes, you read that right!  After a 3 year investigative national study of what people in the happiest relationships do differently – and what they did to get them there – groundbreaking researcher Shaunti Feldhahn has identified several surprisingly simple little actions and habits that make a huge difference.   Whether you want to make a great relationship even better or are trying to breathe new life into a struggling one, this encouraging and fascinating talk will leave you saying, “I had no idea that such-and-such mattered so much…but I can do that!”

If you have ever wondered just what your spouse is thinking, this talk is for you! Sharing nearly two decades of research, Shaunti Feldhahn shares the aha moments that unveil the inner workings of men and women. You will be challenged to see your mate in a new way − and coached with do-able ways to support each other. Full of laughter and insight, you will be encouraged and your marriage can be changed! 

Marriages today are nowhere near as “in trouble” as we have been led to believe – and the implications for encouraging your people are enormous.  It turns out that millions of marriages – and hundreds of thousands of pastors and marriage leaders –have been unnecessarily discouraged by some conventional wisdom about marriage and divorce that simply isn’t true!  Imagine the difference it would make for a couple who is living together to know that the divorce rate has never been close to 50%. Or for the couple struggling to save their marriage that most marriages get through bad times and thrive! Imagine being able to tell your congregation that the rate of divorce in the church is nowhere close to what it is in the world, and that church attendance does matter!  Shaunti Feldhahn (author of the best-seller For Women Only and For Men Only) shares about these myths and others from her book The Good News About Marriage. Through more than eight years of intense research, Shaunti has discovered that the sense of futility about marriage today is itself a reason for marriage breakdown – yet this sense of futility is based on discouraging beliefs that simply aren’t true! In this session, Shaunti will provide an important briefing on the shocking but encouraging truth that every pastor, marriage champion, and congregant needs to know.  As Andy Stanley put it in the Foreword, this book changes everything about how we think and talk about marriage.

Ever heard “you’re just not listening!” after you’ve been listening to your teen (to tween) for ten minutes?  Ever been confused or worried at your child’s behavior (“You Googled what on the internet?!”), or wondered What is going on in that head of yours?  Do you know how to create a connection that will last a lifetime? Well, it turns out: for every confused parent, there’s a teen, pre-teen or child who is longing to be understood. Parents will leave this talk – based on interview and surveys with more than 3,000 teens and tweens for Shaunti Feldhahn’s book For Parents Only – with a much greater understanding of what is going on in there. And with much more confidence and practical answers for how to relate to, guide, and direct their child as they grow into a healthy, godly young adult even in a challenging culture.

Shaunti shares her eye-opening findings about the "secrets of the opposite sex" that will give your students the practical, ‘real life’ relationship skills they need for a lifetime. Research shows there is a lot they don't know that they don't know!  What is a man's greatest need? (Hint: it is completely different than women think!) Why are women so confusing?  (Hint: they don't have to be - you can make her happy.)  Shaunti has identified the most important small (easy to apply), surprising (a-ha!) changes that can have the largest, lifelong impacts – changes that will provide immediate benefit for every student (and every member of your community). There are very few talks that truly have the potential to equip a student for a lifetime, but - as long as the student is willing to listen -- this is one of them.

It turns out, when you work with opposite gender you are working with a foreign culture! Men and women each have certain perceptions and expectations of how things “should” work at work, and it is game changing to know what those unwritten rules are.  In this session, Shaunti Feldhahn shares the results of nearly two decades of research with thousands of men and women for her book The Male Factor and the ongoing research for The Female Factor, to give you the tools you need to avoid obstacles you didn’t know were there, have the greatest possible influence, productivity and effectiveness – and make all of that drama disappear.

Did you know that there are buried secrets inside your spouse? And that the topics that are the hardest to talk about, with a little knowledge, can make the biggest impact? Deep feelings, needs, concerns, hopes, that you didn't know were there? It turns out that to take a marriage from good to great, a few little 'aha moments' and simple actions make a big difference! Ladies, come learn about the inner life of your man -all those things he wishes you knew but may not know how to explain. And guys, you'll be so encouraged to see that you can understand your wife and make her happy! Based on Jeff & Shaunti's groundbreaking research with thousands of people over nearly two decades, you'll find this session fun, funny - and very, very helpful.