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3 Ways to Rebuild Family Bridges Over the Holidays

3 Ways to Rebuild Family Bridges Over the Holidays

You know those college-football bumper magnets that say “A house divided?” Perhaps she supports University of Michigan, he’s a rabid Michigan State guy. Maybe it’s Alabama vs. Auburn.  Or USC – UCLA. Regardless, the couple has to learn to get along during football season. I feel like our entire country needs a bumper magnet. A house divided. Republican vs. Democrat….read more →

Why the “Married Sex” Video Makes Me Furious

Why the “Married Sex” Video Makes Me Furious

Recently, someone asked what I think about the “Married Sex During the Week” video posted on Facebook and chortled about on social media. Have you seen it? Some women think it’s hysterical. I haven’t found a single man who does. And this vast difference points just how clueless we women can be about something that has a huge emotional impact on…read more →

Two reasons why he walks away from an emotional conversation

Two reasons why he walks away from an emotional conversation

A reader recently asked: “Why does my boyfriend always seem to RUN from a conflict?  Well, not so much conflict, as emotion.   When things get intense, especially if I start crying, I need resolution –but he’s heading out the door.  I try to keep him there, but he says he needs space and leaves.  It is hurtful.  He’s a…read more →

The two most dangerous assumptions women make about relationships

The two most dangerous assumptions women make about relationships

After I finished speaking at a recent women’s event, a beautiful woman who I will call Sierra came up to ask me a question.  “How can I get my husband to do anything to improve our relationship?  He has completely shut down on me.  He won’t go to counseling, he won’t read any books.”  She picked up one of the…read more →

My Readers Make Me Cry (A Heart-felt Thanks)

My Readers Make Me Cry (A Heart-felt Thanks)

Really, you all. You make me cry. In a very good way. I cannot tell you how much I have appreciated the flood of support and encouragement I’ve seen since I shared on my blog about our son’s epilepsy and the many struggles that result. You have posted encouragement on social media, sent amazing emails through our website, and written…read more →

Help Us Lead a Movement of Kindness

Help Us Lead a Movement of Kindness

Dear Leader, Thank you for your interest in leading this movement of kindness! This is a time in our culture when people have become very aware of how unkind we’ve become, especially during this year of brutal presidential politics and social division.  We believe solutions to transform this culture should be led by the body of Christ! What is the…read more →

Men, Avoid This Sneaky Trap That Will Kill Your Marriage

Men, Avoid This Sneaky Trap That Will Kill Your Marriage

Last week, speaking primarily to women, we revealed the sneaky trap that will quietly but efficiently kill any marriage: Never, ever, ever think your spouse “shouldn’t” be hurt by something that wouldn’t hurt you. The same trap can and often does ensnare men. For both men and women, we often completely forget (or brush off altogether) the fact that we…read more →

Look What Arrived in the Mail!

Look What Arrived in the Mail!

A package came in the mail and look what it is!!! Shaunti gets the typeset copy of The Kindness Challenge Book! From Shaunti Feldhahn on Vimeo. Send an email to CNiziol@shaunti.com if you want to be on the short list to hear more about the launch team in about two weeks, once we can share everything that is secret now!