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Guys, This Is What Women Really Want

Guys, This Is What Women Really Want

Guys, women can seem SO complicated. How can you know what’s really in her mind? You know you love her, but sometimes she acts like she isn’t sure. Here’s what she really wants from you. https://vimeo.com/222238191What Your Wife Really Wants From You from FamilyLife Canada on Vimeo. Helping people thrive in life and relationships is Shaunti Feldhahn’s driving passion, supported…read more →

How to Surprise Your Wife In Ways That Will Delight Her

How to Surprise Your Wife In Ways That Will Delight Her

Men, have you ever been surprised when you’ve tried to surprise your wife? I heard just such a story recently, and I’ll bet you can feel this guy’s pain. Even though baseball tickets at the new stadium were WAY out of their budget, this guy knew his wife would LOVE to go – and he unexpectedly managed to get tickets! Not…read more →

What You Need to Survive the Flight from Hell (Featuring a Screaming Baby)

What You Need to Survive the Flight from Hell (Featuring a Screaming Baby)

I write this from 30,000 feet, heading home to my family. And about 5 rows behind me, there’s a very unhappy 20-month old. Actually two. A sweet husband and wife have two adorable, cherub-faced, curly-haired twin boys – and both of them have very good lungs. They have spent the 40 minutes of boarding, taxing for takeoff, taking off, climbing to altitude,…read more →

4 Secrets in Your Man’s Heart (That You Need to Know)

4 Secrets in Your Man’s Heart (That You Need to Know)

Ladies, if you could improve your relationship with your man by applying a few simple truths, would you?  Seriously: think about that question. Because I’ve found in my research with thousands of men for For Women Only, that the things that light your man up — and which hurt him — are probably quite different from those that would do…read more →

When He Denies Needing Your Help, Here’s Why

When He Denies Needing Your Help, Here’s Why

Ladies, has your man ever refused to admit that he should go see a doctor or claimed that he knows where he’s going when he is clearly lost? He’s not alone. A man will typically insist that “he’s fine,” that “it’s all good,” that he “doesn’t need help”—even when we might just insist otherwise. My research with men for For…read more →

5 Reasons To Leave The Lights On For Sex

5 Reasons To Leave The Lights On For Sex

Yes, the idea is scary for many women! But in my years of social research, I have uncovered many truths that men wish we knew, but they don’t know how to tell us. And, I heard the heart behind this wish – and discovered five surprising reasons to take the risk. Reason #1: When he knows you want him, it…read more →

3 Sneaky Ways You’re Making Yourself Stressed

3 Sneaky Ways You’re Making Yourself Stressed

Do you have any idea what is the most frequent command in the Bible? Believe it or not, it is not to “love one another” (although that’s up there!). Instead, the most frequent command — used more than 70 times — is “do not be afraid.” We don’t really realize it, but we humans are prone to fear! We subconsciously feed it,…read more →

3 Simple Compliments That Will Please Your Wife

3 Simple Compliments That Will Please Your Wife

Husbands, do you want to know what goes on inside your wife’s head? And do you wish there was something that you could say to make her feel deeply loved? While I cannot tell you everything she thinks, I can assure you that, if she’s like most of the women in my surveys, these are the areas where you can most…read more →

4 Ways to Spark More Romance in Your Relationship

4 Ways to Spark More Romance in Your Relationship

Ladies, have you been wishing your husband were more Prince Charming and a little less Homer Simpson lately? Been daydreaming that someday he would plan a special evening for just the two of you? But then is your next thought, “He doesn’t even care”? Well, you might be surprised to learn that he does care -and he deeply wants to…read more →