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How to Regain His Love and Restore Your Relationship

How to Regain His Love and Restore Your Relationship

Dear Shaunti, My husband and I have been married 5 years and I love him, but we’ve been arguing a lot lately.  We both work a lot and have two children, so we spend a good bit of time apart. I tend to be a control freak and, as my husband says, I panic if something doesn’t go the way I…read more →

Make Your Husband Happy With the Next-Day Rule

Make Your Husband Happy With the Next-Day Rule

Ladies, imagine that as part of your dream job or volunteer work, you are offered a project that is really exciting, and could also earn you a very welcome financial bonus. You step up to do it. Eager to please your boss, you spend long weeks binge-drinking caramel macchiatos, getting little sleep, and pouring your soul into the work. Finally,…read more →

Guys, She Cares About This One Thing More Than Money

Guys, She Cares About This One Thing More Than Money

Many guys that I know often feel like they are caught between a rock and a hard place. They are busting their tails at work, feeling the stress and sometimes putting in long hours so that they can provide for their families – provide a lifestyle that they think their wives need and want.  Yet, all too often they feel their…read more →

Guys, This Is What Women Really Want

Guys, This Is What Women Really Want

Guys, women can seem SO complicated. How can you know what’s really in her mind? You know you love her, but sometimes she acts like she isn’t sure. Here’s what she really wants from you. https://vimeo.com/222238191What Your Wife Really Wants From You from FamilyLife Canada on Vimeo. Helping people thrive in life and relationships is Shaunti Feldhahn’s driving passion, supported…read more →

How to Surprise Your Wife In Ways That Will Delight Her

How to Surprise Your Wife In Ways That Will Delight Her

Men, have you ever been surprised when you’ve tried to surprise your wife? I heard just such a story recently, and I’ll bet you can feel this guy’s pain. Even though baseball tickets at the new stadium were WAY out of their budget, this guy knew his wife would LOVE to go – and he unexpectedly managed to get tickets! Not…read more →

What You Need to Survive the Flight from Hell (Featuring a Screaming Baby)

What You Need to Survive the Flight from Hell (Featuring a Screaming Baby)

I write this from 30,000 feet, heading home to my family. And about 5 rows behind me, there’s a very unhappy 20-month old. Actually two. A sweet husband and wife have two adorable, cherub-faced, curly-haired twin boys – and both of them have very good lungs. They have spent the 40 minutes of boarding, taxing for takeoff, taking off, climbing to altitude,…read more →

4 Secrets in Your Man’s Heart (That You Need to Know)

4 Secrets in Your Man’s Heart (That You Need to Know)

Ladies, if you could improve your relationship with your man by applying a few simple truths, would you?  Seriously: think about that question. Because I’ve found in my research with thousands of men for For Women Only, that the things that light your man up — and which hurt him — are probably quite different from those that would do…read more →

When He Denies Needing Your Help, Here’s Why

When He Denies Needing Your Help, Here’s Why

Ladies, has your man ever refused to admit that he should go see a doctor or claimed that he knows where he’s going when he is clearly lost? He’s not alone. A man will typically insist that “he’s fine,” that “it’s all good,” that he “doesn’t need help”—even when we might just insist otherwise. My research with men for For…read more →

5 Reasons To Leave The Lights On For Sex

5 Reasons To Leave The Lights On For Sex

Yes, the idea is scary for many women! But in my years of social research, I have uncovered many truths that men wish we knew, but they don’t know how to tell us. And, I heard the heart behind this wish – and discovered five surprising reasons to take the risk. Reason #1: When he knows you want him, it…read more →