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JoyfullyHis
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| 02/02/2012 1:59 PM |
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I have a question related to being the 'keeper of the visual rolex' which may be a little unusual, but truly puzzling enough to ask. Perhaps some of those who are older will have some light to shed upon it. :smile:
The young man I'm currently courting has, in times past, had problems with pornography. Two years ago [long before I'd met him] he decided [on his own] to not only free himself of that, but to set rigorous standards in place - including weaning himself off of television {for good!} to set himself two accountability partners, filters [naturally] - what he did, on his own, blows me away. I have NO fears of future involvement with that. So that's the background.
Now, obviously, I'm not married, so I cannot provide all of the support a married woman could, for him. But, isn't there SOMETHING I could do to be 'the keeper of the visual rolex'? [Other then pray and dress/act modestly.] He's very open with me and my father about anything I want to know, and, to me, about anything that I do that could be a stumbling block, which is a major relief - but I'm wondering what I could do *to build him up*.
[I might also add that my father is a COMPLETELY un-visual person, and I'm extremely young to be in a commited relationship. Neither of these things are helping my wisdom-quanity in these matters. :wink: ]
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JoyfullyHis
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| 02/02/2012 5:09 PM |
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| {By the way. My paragraphs totally messed up, and I see no way to fix it. [new to the forum! =P] My apologies!} |
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